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just a boy

    Hello everyone, A month on Sunday I will get top surgery and take a huge step towards sitting in the body I always deep down knew I was meant to have. I looked at my colleague yesterday wearing a plain white t-shirt, smiled, and said to him, 'I can't wait to wear that and feel', and ran my hand down my front making a sort of whooosh noise to indicate no tits (maybe you had to be there). It's finally happening, and it's been one of my greatest honours to have your support, however we know each other, or however you found this page. I am hugely blessed to have my fundraiser have raised so much in a bit under a year, and had my silly events go well. Thank you to everyone who has been part of my journey, whether donating, sharing a post, coming to event (s), performing, playing in an exhausting game of 11 v 11, or helping me not lose my sh*t over trying to be an events planner. I can't really put how it all feels into words, but know next year when/if you see me and I have the biggest smile on my face, that you helped me get to this place of self-acceptance and self-celebration. Endless love, Leo x
    Dear friend, colleague, a friend I’m yet to meet, I have created this fundraiser to take the next step towards life-changing surgery. The last few years have been hugely significant for getting to know myself and freeing myself from living to society's expectations. I celebrate 3 wonderful years on Testosterone (HRT) in January 2026, which has helped me grow into the self-assured, transmasculine person in front of you. There’s still a next step to grow even more into myself, and this is where you can help me. Because I long for running my hand down a flat chest, I long for looking at a photo of me in the pool and not experiencing a wave of sadness that my body doesn’t match my face and the transness within my soul, I long for a dress shirt running smoothly down my body before I put a tie on, And honestly, I perhaps desire to be topless in Sainsburys at least once in my life. I have been on the GIC waitlist over 2.5 years at the time of writing this (since December 2022), but it still is highly likely to be at least another 6 years before I would get an initial chat with them (prior to any referral for surgery). This is why I am making the vulnerable step to share this fundraiser with you. It’s a little scary, but it’s my dream to be flat-chested by 35 and see my future looking back at me when I look in the mirror. To do this, I need to privately secure my surgery. Unfortunately, this comes at a cost. I am looking to have surgery in Sweden with Reformkliniken. Initial quotes look like the surgery will cost at least 6.5k. This is cheaper than having top surgery here, which often costs upwards of £10k. Cost breakdown: Surgery and medication cost: est. £6,500-7,650 (see quote below - booked) Surgery extras (compression socks, soap, & prescription): est. <£50 2.5 weeks' accommodation for consultation & recovery: £1,300 (booked) Flights & train travel to Malmö: est. £182 (booked) GoFundMe fees: est. £125ish (if I meet target, 2.9% per transaction) = £8,157 minimum total (updated due to new quote from surgery on 27/01/26) - £9,307 (updated 09/26 due to exchange rate) I am grateful to my employer Dogs Trust for giving me a month to recover from surgery and the loved ones who will help me recuperate. And, I am thankful for you, for reading and sharing this, and if you have the means to donate that would mean the world. Any leftover funds will be given back into the community. Much love, Leo x