Aug.31, 2026
What an emotionally draining, terrifying, and life-altering last few weeks this has been for our family.
My baby boy, Jax, had been experiencing what started as very intermittent vomiting for about two months. Over the last few weeks, though, it became progressively worse. We initially thought it might be related to the acne medication he had been taking for the past 4–5 months, since nausea and vomiting can be side effects. I brought it up to his dermatologist, who didn’t seem overly concerned and felt it should improve.
But it didn’t.
When things reached the point that Jax couldn’t even drink water without vomiting, every instinct in me was telling me that something was wrong. We went to Golisano, expecting answers—but never in a million years expecting the answers we received.
After an incredibly long day and night in the ER, Jax had an ultrasound, followed by an MRI. The MRI showed a mass on his liver, and he was admitted to the hospital. We were then given the devastating news that my 17-year-old son…my “lil bear,” hasH a 12 cm tumor on his liver and that the doctors were concerned it could be cancer.
Jax underwent a CT-guided liver biopsy, and unfortunately, the results confirmed our worst fears.
Cancer. Hepatocellular carcinoma.
There truly are no words to describe what it feels like to hear that word attached to your child.
I work with patients in surgical oncology every single day. I am part of a team that helps patients and families navigate some of the most frightening and uncertain moments of their lives. But I never imagined that one day I would suddenly find myself on the other side of it—not as a medical assistant, but as a mom sitting beside her baby boy, trying to process that he has cancer.
Nothing prepares you for this.
The last week has been filled with fear, tears, questions, appointments, tests, and emotions I don’t even know how to put into words. At the same time, I have watched Jax face something no 17-year-old should ever have to face, and I am incredibly proud of him. He is so strong. So brave …with such courage!
Right now, we are taking this one appointment, and one day at a time. We still have a long road ahead of us and more answers to get, but one thing is certain: Jax will never walk this road alone. We will be beside him every single step of the way.
To everyone who has reached out, checked on Jax, prayed for him, prayed for our family, sent messages, or simply kept us in your thoughts, thank you. Please continue to keep our Jax in your prayers. We need every single one of them. ❤️
Life really can change in the blink of an eye. Hold your babies a little tighter, say “I love you” every chance you get, and never take an ordinary day for granted.