I want to begin by thanking every one of you who has already contributed to this campaign.
Your kindness has helped my children and me through an extraordinarily difficult period of our lives. I don’t take a single donation, message, share, or act of support for granted. You stepped forward when we genuinely needed help, and I am deeply grateful.
Before becoming ill, I was working as an Ayurvedic practitioner, teacher, therapist and counsellor, as well as teaching meditation and Traditional Tantra. I also serve as an appointed Bhukti Pradhan, by a group of yogic and traditional tantric monks, which is a community leadership and service role entrusted with helping support the spiritual and practical welfare of the local community.
Earlier this year, my health changed dramatically.
I became severely ill with what was eventually diagnosed as Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS). For months I lived with extreme pain, significant bleeding, difficulty walking and sitting, and very little sleep. After initially being misdiagnosed, I eventually required surgery and extensive debridement, followed by infection, antibiotics, wound packing and ongoing nursing care. The recovery has been long, and I am still receiving care while dealing with the chronic nature of this disease.
I simply became unable to work reliably.
That is why I had to turn to Ontario Works. I am now in the process of transitioning to ODSP because my health continues to significantly limit my ability to earn a dependable income. Asking for this kind of assistance ~ and asking publicly for help ~ was never where I imagined I would find myself.
But right now, my priority is my children.
We are trying to take the next major step: finding a safe, stable, long-term home where we can begin again. I have been actively viewing homes and submitting applications, and the money raised through this campaign is helping make that possible. It provides a bridge for first and last month’s rent, moving expenses, replacing belongings that cannot safely come with us because of the bedbug situation, and keeping our family financially stable while I continue healing and the ODSP process moves forward.
This is where I am asking for your help once more...not necessarily financially, but by helping our story reach further.
If you would be willing to share this campaign again, please do. Share it with a friend, your community, or anyone you think might understand what our family is trying to get through. Sometimes one share is all it takes for a story to reach the right person.
And if you have already donated and genuinely feel drawn to contribute again, even a small amount would be received with tremendous gratitude. But please know there is absolutely no obligation. You have already helped us, and I will never lose sight of that.
We have come a long way from those frightening months when I could barely function because of the pain. There is finally some light ahead of us.
What I want now is remarkably simple: to get my children into a safe home, continue healing, and begin rebuilding our lives.
Thank you for helping us get this far.
Thank you for believing our family was worth helping.
And if you can, please help carry our story just a little further.
With love and deep gratitude,
Ram (Richard)
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