Lilly is just 30 years old and a devoted mom to two boys, ages 8 and 2.
Just days before Christmas 2025, Lilly was hospitalized suddenly and soon after received the news that she has stage 4, aggressive breast cancer. The very serious hormonal type of breast cancer. She started radiation and chemotherapy right away (this past Monday 1/12/26), and her world is changing overnight.
This illness came out of nowhere, and the family has had to act quickly to get Lilly the treatment she needs but also shift around care for children and figure out household bills. Her parents and grandparents have helped with rent, but they’re on fixed incomes and can’t keep up with the ongoing costs long term. Lilly has a roommate and support, but with treatment starting, she won’t be able to work as she planned.
The loss of income was sudden and has immediately impacted their household, and while others have come together to help with utilities, food, car payments, insurance, and other monthly expenses, rent remains a constant and urgent need.
No one fully knows what out-of-pocket medical costs will look like as treatment continues, and the uncertainty of making sure her son's can sleep in their same beds throughout all of this adds stress that her body just doesn't need right now.
If you know me, you know how deeply I care about kids having stable housing when things get shaky around them, because what surrounds us shapes us. When a parent’s health changes overnight, the most protective thing we can do for children is as simple as keep the basics steady: the same home, the same beds, the same routines. This one simple thing can help a child’s nervous system to stay regulated and calm, this is what builds resilient children. That is how children survive tough times. Just a consistent routine and it can help Lilly to be as present as she can for them, and enable her to focus on her health and and parenting without worrying about rent.
Lilly will have help with her sons, but being able to stay in their home will make life easier on them and on Lilly. The type of radiation and chemotherapy she will endure is going to be very difficult, and we want to make life as easy on her as we can. Other bills, food, and things like insurance payments are covered.
We’re aiming to raise $6,600, which covers about five months of rent (approximately $1,300/month). This cushion gives Lilly time to start treatment, adjust to the reality of reduced income, and make a longer-term plan without housing anxiety.
How you can help:
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Thank you for showing up for Lilly in a practical, loving way during a time no young family should ever have to face.
Lilly will be invited to join this fundraiser and her mom will post updates as they have them.
Thanks for thinking about my family and for helping support Lilly and her family.