Melissa Moore

Help Robert Rybaltowski Through Stage 4 Lung Cancer Treatment Robert is one of the kindest people I know, and I’m lucky to call him my friend. He’s the person who offers a ride even when it’s 45 minutes out of his way, shows up when someone needs help, and asks, “Do you need anything else?” before he leaves. His clients know that same side of Robert: he cares about doing his work well, and when they need a little extra help, he’s there. Robert is 47 and has worked since he was 14. For years, he and his mom worked alongside each other cleaning homes throughout Chicago, often six or seven days a week. He loves his family, especially his nephews. It’s difficult for him to ask for help, but he needs us now more than ever. In April 2026, Robert began having severe back pain. He kept working as much as he could, taking days off or canceling jobs when the pain became unbearable. In September, doctors found that he has stage 4 lung cancer that has spread to his spine. His doctor has told him that, even with treatment, his time may be limited to a matter of years. Robert is beginning treatment with hope, while facing how serious this diagnosis is. He started radiation in September and began chemotherapy and immunotherapy on October 7. Robert can no longer clean homes himself. Because that work has been his main source of income, he has already lost a substantial amount of what he earns. He is doing what he can to keep the business operating, but treatment and the cancer in his spine may keep him from returning to physical work for a long time. We’re raising money to help Robert pay for medications and treatment-related expenses, along with food, his car payment and insurance, and his phone. He will need this support throughout treatment, extending well beyond the next few months. We don’t yet know the full cost of his care; one prescription has already cost him several hundred dollars for a two-week supply. As his treatment plan and expenses become clearer, I’ll share updates here. When I asked Robert what he wanted people to understand, he said, “I’m just trying to live.” He also told me that he wants to make a difference with the time he has, including helping someone else if he can. Even in this conversation, Robert was thinking about others. Robert has spent years showing up for other people. During this time, I’m asking you to show up for him. If you’re able to donate, please do. And if you know someone who might want to help Robert, please share his story with them. Your support will help him cover the costs of living and treatment while he gives his full attention to his health. With love and gratitude, Melissa