The Good Grief Trust Umbrella Bereavement Charity

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Raised by 238 people in 35 months

Hi, I'm Linda, founder of our new Charity, please watch this video. Thankyou.

We launched in 2014 and just over 2 years since we were established as a Registered Charity, our Facebook page now has a reach of one million with engagements of over 180,000 per month.

The Good Grief Trust aims to raise awareness of issues around bereavement and try to change the way we deal with this taboo subject in the UK, ensure acknowledgement of the potentially severe effects of grief and encourage us all to talk it about it more openly.

We are now the UK's leading Bereavement Charity bringing over 600 bereavement services under the one umbrella.  Our vision is to try and help repair the holes in the current bereavement net.

Our Story - why I launched The Good Grief Trust
I lost my partner Graham to a rare cancer, a soft tissue sarcoma, on September 2nd 2014. The past 2 years have been extremely difficult, especially the early days of trying to find help for the totally debilitating feelings I had after Graham died. We were together for 8 years, he was my best friend, the man who made me laugh more than anyone and I miss him like crazy every day. Grief has changed my whole world, the pain has been unbearable at times and I want to ensure that no-one else has to suffer unnecessarily because they cannot access the support they need, at a time they need it most.

With over HALF A MILLION DEATHS in the UK every year, this is a National issue that needs addressing. Thankfully not everyone will be affected by cancer, heart disease or other life limiting conditions, but at sometime in our lives ALL of us will be affected by grief and none of us know how we will react to the death of someone close until it happens. Quote - Prince William; "Losing someone close is the most painful experience anyone can go through"

Sobering statistic; there are more suicides through grief following the death of a loved one than through depression.

Through my extensive research, I have come to realise that there are huge gaps in our bereavement support in the UK and is why I am so passionate about trying to make significant improvements in the way grief is managed in Britain. Many of the major bereavement charities, including Cruse & Child Bereavement UK also agree with this conclusion and are keen to support us.

Quote: Julia Samuel; "it isn't the circumstances of the death that will predict a positive or negative outcome,
it is the support they get at the time and after the death.

This is the key component to anybody finding a way to rebuild their life."

The situation at present is that often the content and quality of the information provided to relatives by hospitals, hospices, GP's, Police, Funeral Directors, Registrars, Care Homes & Clergy is sporadic and generally depends on who is dealing with the death and where in the UK you live. There are outstanding charities and organisations offering excellent support for those who have lost someone close all around the UK, but they are just not being easily found. Equally many organisations are not providing sufficient information, guidance and advice, with some offering no support at all, so many thousands of people are falling through the cracks. Therefore we aim to bring all services together under our one umbrella for simple, quick access to support.

Incredibly there is not one Website in the UK that provides information about every bereavement service available, whether you have lost a partner, child, parent, grandparent, sibling or friend. We aim to develop the UK's 1st fully comprehensive online support network - THE GOOD GRIEF GUIDE.COM run by the bereaved, for the bereaved, to bring bereavement into the 21st Century, to talk about it in a more honest, straightforward way, deal with it as positively as possible and help to make it a little more bearable for those at the early stages and inspire those further along their own grief 'journey'.............

This project is on a National scale and we therefore need significant funding to set up this Charity and achieve our objectives;

1) Develop a new fully comprehensive Support Website for the UK -The Good Grief Guide.com

2) Develop a strategy (i.e. new Bereavement 'Pack') to find every person in the UK who is bereaved and signpost them to help and support as quickly as possible.

3) Work with Health professionals to bring together best practice across the country and share successful projects so that both the health service and the public can benefit from a fresh new approach to bereavement services.

4) Bring all bereavement charities, services and organisations under the one umbrella, for simple, easy access, providing practical help, advice and support in the early days, to offering hope for the future with a wealth of inspiring ideas, services and ongoing support.

Your funds will go towards the setting up of this new Umbrella Charity.  To include the nationwide research & development of a new Bereavement Support Website.  The design, printing and distribution of hard copy information which we aim to provide to all front line organisations across the UK, to be given to the bereaved via hospitals, hospices, the Police, Funeral Directors, Registrars, Care Homes, Clergy.  

Thank you so much for your donation, we are very grateful for your help with this ambitious project. Please read on to learn more about my personal story and our plans in more detail.......................



I thought you may like to hear a little more about my story.  
Graham and I first met when I was playing Susi, one of the original cast of Grange Hill for the BBC, back in the late 70's and he was one of our new charismatic directors on the programme.  The whole cast loved him! I am proud to say that Graham (Theakston) was a hugely successful TV & Film Director, with a long list of credits, winning the BAFTA for the Politcian's Wife with Juliet Stevenson, directing the pilot for New Tricks, Cadfael with Sir Derek Jacobi, Boon, Dempsey & Makepeace, A Touch of Frost, Sherlock Holmes, the acclaimed Seeing Red with Sarah Lancashire, The Lazarus Child with Andy Garcia, the list goes on.  

We didn't see each other again until 30 years later, when I was out locally one day and heard someone call my name. It was Graham.....I couldn't believe it! Strangely he had been living 10 mins away for over 20 years but we'd never met. By that time, we were both out of long term relationships and there was just something very special between us right from that first day. We were holding hands pretty much from then on and that was that, we were firmly hooked for the next 8 amazing years we had together.  I know now that the love we had for each other was stronger than either of us ever knew. 

The early days after he died were a fog, a mixture of totally debilitating feelings of unbelievable deep, deep sadness and very real thoughts that I might actually be going a little mad! I would sit and stare at the wall, not being able to physically stand up. I'd go on long lonely walks talking out loud to Graham, trying to work out where on earth he had gone! How could someone who was sleeping next to me, laughing with me, thinking with that brilliant brain of his and who was such an incredibly strong spirit could now be in a container on someone's shelf?! Nothing made any sense anymore. I began to observe life, watching people go about their daily routine, but being unable to participate, which was the strangest feeling and totally disconcerting, it really affected my day to day life. I couldn't deal with the mundane, so the stress caused by ignoring bills, phone calls and 'real life' just compounded my isolation.  I was totally detached from everyone and everything, others seemed oblivious to how catastrophic this all was to me! No-one seemed to 'get it'. My GP had limited resources available, they seemed as lost as I did and one unbelievably could only suggest 'posh tissues' (as I was crying so much).  Surely this lack of help and understanding was just not acceptable. There must be some organisation who could help me but I didn't have a clue how to find it! I also didn't have the energy to try to look.  I couldn't focus on anything.  I needed to talk to someone who understood how I felt.   The hospitals where Graham was treated didn't have any support groups  either, in fact one asked me if I wanted to start one!  I was incensed by the lack of knowledge, acknowledgement and understanding of grief, so I set about doing something about it.  

Purely by luck one day surfing the net, I found my lifefline!  A national charity (Widowedandyoung.org.uk), which through peer support has helped me to find new friendships and people who just 'got it'.  It's been truly amazing.  But why didn't anyone know about this charity? Why was I left alone to grapple around in the dark? It was just not good enough!  If this was happening to me, it must be happening to thousands of people up and down the country.


Our vision at The Good Grief Trust is to ensure that no-one in the future is allowed to slip through the current holes in our bereavement net and suffer unnecessarily. I've discussed this project with all key charities, such as Cruse, Child Bereavement UK, Dying Matters, Widowed and Young, The Loss Foundation, as well as MP's, Peers and hundreds of bereaved people and I've been encouraged to hear that they all agree the need to close the gaps.  I am currently working with the National Council for Palliative Care as part of their 'Building on the Best' Programme' visiting 10 selected Hospital Trusts around England to find the best bereavement provision, which we aim to collate, so that every front line organisation will be equipped to provide targeted information, signposting them to our new website; THE GOOD GRIEF GUIDE.COM for more fully comprehensive support.  We are currently developing ideas for the way we present this information to the bereaved; i.e. a 'Pack'/leaflet/booklet etc which will be depend on the results of our research.
Quote: Caron Kemp Journalist written after the death of her mother; "The fragility of life also comes into sharp focus. Not only have I found myself playing her final few days over and again in my mind, but also I’ve started questioning when and how I might die. My family. The order. Death used to be the biggest taboo, now it permeates most of my thoughts"

We also plan to help Health Professionals link up across the country through the website, to share their expertise, knowledge and passion with innovative, inspiring projects and sharing best practice under the one umbrella.


Five months after our launch we now have a reach of over half a million on our Facebook page with one post alone being shared over 5,600 times. Clearly this is an issue that resonates with many people in the UK.


Thank you so much for reading my story. I hope you will want to support us in our work to improve bereavement support in the UK and help us to reach everyone who is grieving, whoever they have lost and where ever they are in Britain. This is a huge project, but one we know is so worthwhile and we will try to ensure our virtual hand of friendship reaches those who need it most.

We very much appreciate your donation and we'll keep you posted with our progress.

Linda x


A final note;
We are a small team at The Good Grief Trust with big ambitions and we are driven to try to help raise awareness of the issues around bereavement and improve care for those grieving in the UK.  We are committed to trying to reach our goals, however, I would just like to say if for any reason The Good Grief Trust is unable to continue as a Charity, funds will be donated to other bereavement charities in the UK to help with their work.







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Hello everyone. It's been quite a while since we updated this page with news on our progress at The Good Grief Trust, as it's been an incredibly busy year! We are still funded solely from events and your kind donations, so we really need your continued support to help us drive our ambitious, exciting national initiatives.

We have so much news to tell you all, but to start we need your help please!

My partner Rod Doll has arranged a fantastic fundraising event for us next month. We really need your donations to get to our target of £10,000!

We aim to help 20,000 bereaved individuals and families receive one of our Good Grief Cards this Christmas, so they can be signposted to help and hope in one place and know where to find their local support. #Youarenotalone

This is Rod's story and JustGiving Page below..............please click on the link below if you can PLEASE HELP US REACH OUR TARGET!!
https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/thegoodgrieftrustcharity?

Thank you so much - we can make a difference together!! Linda and Team xxx

My company, Skyline Investment Group, with thanks to my friend and avid rower Chris Cully, have put a motley crew together to take part in the Great River Race! 21.6 miles of solid rowing up the Thames from the Isle of Dogs to Ham, Richmond!! It's going to be a challenge!! Wish us luck!!

This is something I really wanted to do because I'm passionate to help my partner Linda Magistris, who I love very much, raise much needed funds for her charity. She is the Founder and CEO of The Good Grief Trust and she has pioneered a new way of bringing together all the bereavement support services across the country under one new umbrella. The website now has over 600 local, regional and national support services from the leading charities, to the local coffee shops, helplines, online support, peer support, and more.

Now, anyone who is bereaved and the professionals working with them can click a button and find a choice of support that is right for them for any type of bereavement, anywhere in the country.

We have both lost our partners which brought us together. When you lose someone important in your life it is the most painful thing you can go through.

HELP US TO HELP THEM - Thank you x

The Good Grief Trust have led the way for a new way of thinking about how we cope with grief and loss in our country and this amazing charity has made such a huge difference to the lives of thousands of bereaved people since they launched only 3 years ago.

They have built a following of almost 14,000 on Facebook and their reach after Christmas 2018 was 1 million with over 185,000 engagements in the month, which is a huge achievement for a young voluntary charity.

We need to recognise this and make sure every person who is bereaved has a 'tool kit' of support and knows they are not alone.

Linda is the kindest and most caring person I have ever met, as are all her volunteers. They all do a fantastic job, but they need your help!

Please take a moment to look at their website and share it with friends www.thegoodgrieftrust.org. They have all the UK bereavement services together under one umbrella - Help and Hope in One Place.

They all work voluntarily and the money raised will go towards;

1) Producing their Good Grief Cards, which need to go into the hands of every person who is bereaved, to make sure they know they are not alone and they know exactly where to find help - 525,000 people die a year! They need a lot of cards!!

2) Running their Good Grief Cafes, which are to be rolled out across the country, where their umbrellas are popped up in local communities to bring people together for a cup of tea and cake and find friendships in their local area.

3)To help them launch the UK's first National Grief Awareness Week, which will be at Christmas this year from 2nd - 8th December. This the first time we have had such a national event, and they are driving this exciting initiative to raise awareness of the pain of grief on a national platform.

They also launched a new All Party Parliamentary Group on Bereavement Support and they run this important Government cross party Group, bringing over 85 leading charities, support organisations, MP's and Peers together at Westminster to influence change and improvements to bereavement care.

Please help them by sponsoring us. Thank you so much. You will be making a difference to so many people's lives.

#OpenUpToGrief #NationalGriefAwarenessWeek - 2nd - 8th Dec 2019
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Hello everyone - I wanted to give you a quick update on our fundraising goals.

We are delighted to have reached our first target of £8000 before our Anniversary on the 2nd September. Huge thanks to you all for your generosity.

To celebrate our 1st year , we're thrilled to be launching a fantastic new fundraising campaign. We hope you will be able to join us and make a real difference to the lives of all those suffering grief across the country.

All funds are being spent in the set up of the charity, and the build of our new national website. Future fundraising will be put towards the design, printing and distribution our new Good Grief card, to signpost every person who is bereaved to targeted support and help.

Our aims and objectives for The Good Grief Trust include an ambitious programme of innovative and exciting projects planned for the coming months and years, which we hope will transform the way we approach grief and bereavement in the UK, so we are incredibly grateful for your help in getting us here and we hope you will continue to champion our cause.

More details coming soon!
Many thanks once again, you are all amazing.
Linda x
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Hi everyone.

It's been so busy lately, we haven't had time for an update, so here it is!

Today the 2nd of August is a special day for our charity, as it's COUNTDOWN day! Only 4 weeks to go until The Good Grief Trust celebrates it's 1st Anniversary!

We have been working very hard over the past months, continuing to build our new national website to bring over 450 charities and bereavement organisations nationwide together at the click of a button. It will be run by the bereaved, for the bereaved and focus on offering help now and hope for the future. We're almost there!!

September, our Anniversary month, is our target for the launch (finger's crossed!) and once the website is live it will allow all those who have lost someone close, across the UK to access the targeted help and support they need in ONE PLACE. It will also support the Health Professionals who often struggle to find the right help for their patient's relatives and friends, who have been left alone and isolated after the death of their loved one.

In tandem we are working on the first pilot scheme for our Good Grief Card, to be provided to every person who is bereaved via all front line organisations, to ensure that no-one is allowed to leave a hospital or hospice, or have the police knock on their door with news of a sudden death, without them knowing about the website, so they can find help when they are ready.

In additional to working on the site, since 14th June, we have been involved in trying to coordinate support at the Grenfell site as well. I was down there a couple of days after the fire and clearly there was a lack of coordinated support, so one week after the tragedy we were introduced to a local school by one of the parents, who was in need of additional support. We brought in a specialist bereavement charity who could offer expert counselling to the 147 children directly affected by the fire and their parents, as well as the staff, all traumatised by the appalling tragedy.

We have helped to facilitate weekly Coffee Mornings at the school and have met and built relationships with families and local residents, particularly those who were in the Tower and the surrounding properties.

Two interviews followed on BBCBreakfast and the Victoria Derbyshire show highlighting the need for a coordinated approach to deal with the Grenfell situation.

Having been asked to source a venue for a summer camp initiative at the Grenfell site, we are now working with Grief Encounter, Jake Walker Music and The Playground Theatre, offering a Grenfell Summer Programme of morning and afternoon workshops for anyone affected in the community, which is fabulous and going very well.

We have organised a Well Being event at the end of the Summer Programme for 30 local women who were affected by the fire, with a MYMakeover day of much needed pampering offered by own Ambassador, Lee Pycroft, so thank you to Lee and her team of angels, we know this will help to offer a little refuge of calm and restorative treatments.

Thank you to our Patron Fiona Murphy, for giving us donations of toiletries and bags for Grenfell. We have now brought them down to London from Manchester and our volunteers have been beavering away packing 2000 bags which we will distribute as a little gesture of kindness to the community over the summer and to the schools when they return in September.

More exciting news! We have been working with Carolyn Harris MP for a while now, with the aim to form a new All Party Parliamentary Group for Bereavement Support. We are extremely proud to have now registered the new Group at a recent meeting at Westminster and going forward The Good Grief Trust is now the Secretariat for the new Group, working with Carolyn and other members of Government to bring together a wide sector of health professionals, charities and individuals, all with a passion for change and improvements to our current system.

Our first meeting is in September. It's going to be a busy month!

We will keep you regularly updated on our progress in all areas so keep popping back to our FB page. www.facebook.com/thegoodgrieftrust for or register on our website to join our GGT community. www.thegoodgrieftrust.org

With this increase in our work, we are now at the stage when we need additional funding. Our charity isn't yet a year old and we have achieved a great deal with your kind donations, however with many more amazing projects planned and with the day to day work of the charity increasing, we now need more financial assistance.

We have managed with the dedication and support of a solely voluntary group of Trustees to run GGT. We now need to employ the services of a part-time administrator to help us with the day to day running of the Trust. We also need to fund the final stages of the website and the design, printing and distribution our Good Grief Card to a selected number of Hospital Trusts across the UK, to reach those in need as soon as possible.

Please help us if you can with a donation. Any amount would be much appreciated.

Do you know of any corporate sponsor who could help us match fund?

Would your company or your child's school help us with a fundraising event?

Can you arrange a small fundraising event for us? Cake sale, Clothes sale, table top sale, a Quiz, sell something on Ebay for us?......spreading the load and helping each other in a small way, can make a HUGE DIFFERENCE to the lives of all those who have lost the person they love and who may be struggling with their grief.

Thanks so much everyone! You are all amazing!
Please share this and tell your friends and family.

With heartfelt thanks.

Linda xx







so if you could please help us if you can with a donation. I am incredibly grateful for all your support. Having grown so quickly, although we are currently a volunteer led charity, we are are at the stage of expanding rapidly and now need of funding to employ administration support for the day to day running of the charity. We also have ongoing website costs, design, printing and distribution of the Good Grief Card to launch our pilot scheme across a number of Hospital Trusts across the country,

Thank you so much!
Linda





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Hi there

Today, 2nd May is our 8th month anniversary, so I wanted to update you on the latest news on our work, as every day there are new things happening, new people to meet and new initiatives to explore.

We're forging ahead with our plans for the website, it's looking amazing and coming together really well, which is very exciting and we're nearing the launch date very soon, so we'll keep you posted!

The most exciting news is that we are now officially a Registered Charity! No; 1172763. We're thrilled it has come through so quickly, so we will be opening new fundraising pages, as we'll be able to collect Gift Aid now, which will boost our fundraising efforts considerably, so thank you once again for helping us reach our target.

Today I'm going back to St. Raphael's Hospice in Mitcham, who were looking after Graham's care for a while before he died, to talk for the 2nd time at an event for bereavement managers, nurses and health care professionals, so I'm looking forward to telling my story again and meeting a room full of compassionate, dedicated people.

Next week, I've been invited to make a speech at another event in Croydon, to South London bereavement services, with the theme, 'Creating Conversations', encouraging us all to share, talk and learn from each other. This is exactly what we are trying to achieve with GGT, by bringing everyone together across the UK, to share resources and experiences, we will be able to improve the lives of those suffering grief and open difficult conversations about life and death.

We've had a brilliant fundraising event this weekend at Battersea Park, which we wanted to share with WAY, Widowed and Young, so we went off with cupcakes, raffle prizes and games galore to meet passer bys and join with others who had lost their partners, with their children for a Family Fun Day, which was a huge success! £300 raised for both charities and more importantly awareness was raised.

Rupert, one of our Trustees kindly arranged a Quiz Night at his children's school which raised £1000 and his daughter raised £65 for us by baking cakes for a sale which was fabulous.

More incredible fundraising efforts from Nicola Strip, our superhero fundraising champion, who has smashed through her target of £1000 target with only 2 of her events. If you'd like to support her next one, pls click here https://www.gofundme.com/teamjaywolf

If you're a keen cyclist and would like to take part in The prestigious Prudential 100 Race for us in July, or know someone who would love the challenge, please get in touch soon as we're finalising details soon, we have 2 male and 2 females places, so please hurry if you are interested, it's a fantastic event.

Thank you to everyone who has made a donation so far to help our set up at GGT, your support and encouragement is amazing! We're in this together to make the lives of those who have lost someone they love, a little more bearable and help them move forward with hope and strength.

See you again soon Linda xxx



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Marion Foreman
31 months ago

what a great idea - my husband is dying and I know something like this is needed - and it needs to start even before the death has occurred - we need to be able to talk about dying and how we are feeling - this is really big and so important

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Judy Bielik
32 months ago

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I too, lost my husband, age 49, to cancer. Leaving myself and our children, youngest was 5, penniless. We live in the US. There are many support groups here, but I didn't have the "energy" to go to any. My question is, if there are no support groups in the UK, why not Google some on the internet? There are MANY! These online groups helped me tremendously! Not everyone wants to leave their home and go to a group, I didn't, and couldn't because of my children. There IS online help! For EVERYONE! What exactly will this money do? You can't start groups at hospitals and such there for free? I have no idea as I don't live there of course. I hope you have learned to "live with", in lieu of a better phrase, your grief. It's hard, especially when you are left penniless, like we were. I wish you love and peace. I wish I had the $$ to help, but I hope my suggestion will help at least 1 person. God Bless

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My sister Carlene passed suddenly and unexpectedly in June 2017. I got my support through the church. I just want to help others in a small way as they deal with their grief

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You're all doing a great job

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I have been made aware of the Trust through Phil Beastall and his posts. What a wonderful organisation.

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Everyone experiences grief during their lives and this brilliant website ensures they can access all the support they need.

Marion Foreman
31 months ago

what a great idea - my husband is dying and I know something like this is needed - and it needs to start even before the death has occurred - we need to be able to talk about dying and how we are feeling - this is really big and so important

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Judy Bielik
32 months ago

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I too, lost my husband, age 49, to cancer. Leaving myself and our children, youngest was 5, penniless. We live in the US. There are many support groups here, but I didn't have the "energy" to go to any. My question is, if there are no support groups in the UK, why not Google some on the internet? There are MANY! These online groups helped me tremendously! Not everyone wants to leave their home and go to a group, I didn't, and couldn't because of my children. There IS online help! For EVERYONE! What exactly will this money do? You can't start groups at hospitals and such there for free? I have no idea as I don't live there of course. I hope you have learned to "live with", in lieu of a better phrase, your grief. It's hard, especially when you are left penniless, like we were. I wish you love and peace. I wish I had the $$ to help, but I hope my suggestion will help at least 1 person. God Bless

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