Hawaii 5 OMG! Dela Cruz Quintuplets

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Raised by 96 people in 38 months
Excited, Overwhelmed, Happy, Disbelief, Blessed, Shocked, LOVE! 

Some of the many emotions I feel on a daily basis when I think of this journey I’m about to embark on.  My family is growing, and it’s growing fast! 

My husband Ray and I met in October of 1999.  Neither one of us thought our relationship would turn into what it is today.  We had our struggles.  He was much older than I, had been married and divorced 3 times, and already had 5 children (whom I love).  He didn’t hide the fact that after his youngest son he had a vasectomy. 

It was about 7 years into our relationship that I walked away.  I craved a family of my own & it hurt him to know he couldn’t give me what I wanted the most.  Mothers’ Day was always such a sad day for me. 

Our separation didn’t last too long.  We were drawn to each other and I remember thinking to myself that maybe it wasn't meant to be.  Maybe I wasn’t meant to be a Mommy.  As a result of our separation, our bond grew stronger.  After 10 years together, we married in 2009.

In 2012, I took the biggest step of my life.  I scheduled a consultation with a fertility clinic.   Due to our circumstances, we discussed and began treatments for In Vitro Fertilization (IVF).  There were a few complications along the way but after two embryos were transferred, we got the call that we were pregnant.  It was the best day of my life! 

The next September, we were blessed with a healthy baby boy; Makaio.  He is my heart, my love, my entertainment, my world, my EVERYTHING.  My husband Ray and I are absolutely in love with him and are truly grateful that after all these years we’ve been blessed with this beautiful soul.


I still had 7 frozen embryos.  I wanted more than anything to give Makaio a little brother or sister.  So, in January of 2015, I met with my fertility doctors again and shortly after, began necessary treatments to add another bundle of joy to our family.  In April, they transferred two frozen embryos.

April 16, 2015 – The second best day of my life. 

I got the call I’ve been praying for.  We’re pregnant!  I felt our family would now be complete...simply overjoyed!

May 5, 2015 – Bleeding.  Scared.  Whaling.  “Please, God, don’t take this away from me!”. 

I headed to the emergency room thinking the worse had happened.  Outcome?  TWINS!  From panic to euphoria, it was a very emotional day. 

May 8, 2015 – First ultrasound with my fertility doctor. 

“How many embryos did we transfer?” she asked.  I responded with “two”.  As I respond, I’m looking at the monitor and it looks as if there are three little kidney beans.  My mom and niece are with me, and we all see it.  After completing the exam, the doctor confirms there are 3.  Triplets.  Truly blessed.  

May 15, 2015 – Second ultrasound with my other fertility doctor. 

I was alone this time.  Just as the exam was about to end, he started to count “A, B, C...”  My eyes and ears were opened wide. He says “I think you have quads”.  This time, I’m speechless.  Within a matter of 2 weeks, I went from thinking that I miscarried, to having twins, then triplets, now quadruplets?? 

I called my husband to give him the news.  Along with everyone else we told, he thought I was joking.  No joke.  We need four of EVERYTHING, plus a bigger car, and a bigger place to call home...and what about daycare? 

June 15, 2015 – My first visit with a Fetal Diagnostic Specialist. 

They took a peak at the babies and shared we were having 3 boys and one girl.  The 3 boys are identical, stemming from one embryo, and our daughter stemming from the other. 

There’s risks associated with higher multiple births, so of course, the doctors spoke to me about considering selective reduction.  Basically, it’s aborting one or more of the fetuses to allow a better outcome for the others.  I couldn’t do it.  For so long I’ve wanted children and the thought of making the conscious decision to reduce was not an option.  I had full support from my husband and all my family and friends.

July 1, 2015 – My second visit with my Fetal Diagnostic Specialist. 

Guess what?  They found another baby!  “There’s Baby A, there’s Baby B, there’s Baby C, there’s Baby D, and here’s Baby E”.  Another boy.  My initial reaction?  Excitement!  Another baby to love.  I remember thinking “I hope he’s not wrong”. 

It took a few moments after leaving the doctors’ office for me to realize what he really said.  Reality sunk in and my mind really began to race.  5 babies!?  What?  It was a pretty silent car ride.  I think we all (husband, mom & niece) needed to process what had just happened.  I mean, how many more are in there?  Is this really happening?  I’m so blessed, but why me?  What are we going to do? 

We’ve gotten surprise after surprise over the past three months.  Of course, one of my main concerns has been finances.  This was so unexpected.  No one would’ve ever guessed we’d be blessed with 5 babies at once.  Yes, we had fertility treatments but the doctors followed protocol and only transferred 2 embryos.  Science helped me conceive.  But God?  God blessed us with these babies.  One embryo split into two, then each of those split again, resulting in my four boys – that’s a natural occurrence.  The other embryo remained as one – my baby girl is the biggest one of all.  I truly believe we’ve been chosen to parent these little miracles and I intend to do the best I can.

With all the excitement, I’m forced to face reality.  The reality is, is that I’m pregnant with 5 beautiful souls, but there’s a possibility I may not bring all of them home.  Two of the babies have Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS).  This occurs when the blood vessels of the babies’ placenta are connected.  This means one baby (the recipient) receives more blood flow, while the other baby (the donor) receives too little. 

I’ve been going to the doctor on a weekly basis to get ultrasounds done to monitor these two little guys.  A few weeks ago, the doctor drained some of the fluid from Baby C (the recipient).  This was done via Amniocenteses; 650cc’s of fluid was drained.  So far, we haven’t had to drain any additional fluid.  

There are tough decisions in my immediate future.  Doctors may recommend that I have these babies as early as 25 weeks.  This brings risks to all 5 of them with only a 50/50 chance of survival.  I’m almost 21 weeks now and I feel the walls closing in on me.  What will I do? 

I don’t know what lies ahead of me, but I need to remember to have faith and continue to pray that my babies will be okay.  I didn’t ask for quintuplets, but I wouldn’t change it for the world!  I know it’ll be a struggle, but if anyone can do it, we can!  Why else would God choose us? 

As soon as I started to share this excitement with family and friends, I’ve been encouraged to start a Go Fund Me campaign.  I put it off for a while, wanting to focus on myself and the health of the babies.  Now that I’m faced with potentially having these babies in the next 5 weeks, I've come to the realization that my family needs help.  Not only financially, but spiritually. 

There’s so much that we need to do to welcome these babies home.  Diapers...I heard families of quintuplets will go through approximately 35,000 diapers before they are all potty-trained.  WOW! 

Transportation...I currently drive a Nissan Rogue, and my husband drives a Nissan Frontier.  Neither of those vehicles would accommodate my growing family.  We’ve been looking at Vans.  Not a mini-van, a 12-15 passenger van.  That’s really what we’ll need. 

But most of all, we will need help with medical bills.  My family has medical coverage, but with all the uncertainties that lie ahead, we can’t even predict how this will affect us financially. 

It humbles me to ask for help but throughout this journey I realized how willing people are to help those in need.  I, for the first time in a long time, am in need.  If you can find it in your heart to donate to our family, we’d greatly appreciate your generosity.  Every little bit counts.  I also ask that whether or not you make a donation, that you say a prayer for all these little miracles I've been blessed with: Kapena, Kaolu, Keahi, Kupono & Kamali’i Dela Cruz.

Mahalo for reading our story,

Marcie & Ray Dela Cruz
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So very thankful to our Heavenly Father for these six blessings. My soul has been pained by stories of loss lately. Hearing stories of babies who don't make it through the night, or even a week, breaks my heart. It also puts things into perspective. I want so much for my children. I've been hoping and praying I'll be able to buy a home soon; somewhere they'll be able to call their own.

Although its still a goal of mine, I'm going to focus my energy on what money can't buy. We are not wealthy, we are not poor. What we are is BLESSED! We have so much that money can't buy. Six Healthy, Happy, Silly, Loving, Compassionate children.

Visit us on Instagram @quintuplets_of_hawaii
or www.fivemistersandasister.com
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Follow us on Instagram @quintuplets_of_hawaii or visit our blog at www.fivemistersandasister.com
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Living in Hawaii is hard. Living in Hawaii with kids is hard. Living in Hawaii with 6 kids is hard.

Trying to buy a house, and we don't make enough to qualify for a decent mortgage or down payment.

Trying to get my son in a pre-school and we didn't get the scholarship we were hoping for.

We make too much money on one end (insert eye roll), and don't make enough on the other end. #middleclassproblems!

The bright side is that my kids are happy and healthy...the dark side is, we're renting and Makaio still has two more years until kindergarten.

I don't want to move, I don't want to move, I don't want to move. Will I move? I hope not. Hawaii is my home and the only place I want my children to grow up.
Dela Cruz Ohana @ Kualoa Beach Park
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Soon, our babies will be 18 months. I can't believe how quickly time flies! I've been super emotional the past few months. I think I'm experiencing post-partum appreciation! When I think about how blessed I am, I just tear up. I have amazing, fun, happy, healthy children, a supportive family and a rock star of a husband who has taken on the role of "Stay at Home Dad" like a boss! He does so much for us and I can't begin to express how appreciative I am for him.

Then there's all of you. Our family, friends, and even complete strangers who have made donations and prayed for us from the beginning of this wild journey. Thank YOU!

I came home from work last night, and like every other night, the babies were all lined up in the garage as their Daddy just finished feeding them. I was watching them in awe (like I do every day) as I began to think about how much our lives have changed. Our children has brought us great joy. By the way, I still can't believe we had FIVE BABIES.

I looked over at our mini bus (Nissan NV) and thought to myself "wow, if it weren't for all the donations we received, how would we get our family around?" Most of the monies raised here on this site went toward a down payment for our Van. What a life saver! With the 8 of us and two strollers, it's just what we needed.

Thank You, once again to all of you for finding it in your heart to make a donation to our family. For those of you who have prayed for us, please continue sending those "knee mails". Babies are walking now, so we'll need all the prayers we can get!

Visit us on Instagram @quintuplets_of_hawaii or visit www.fivemistersandasister.com

Mahalo Nui Loa from my family to yours!
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Takara Gallinger
36 months ago
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I highly recommend looking into CLOTH DIAPERS. Tons of support groups on facebook. You will save lots of $$$$

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Lita Caralos
35 months ago

Hi QuintS, although I didn't have quintuplets. My first pregnancy I was blessed with twins and that in itself was overwhelming. It was truly a blessing but it took a while for my brain to process everything. My mind was racing with thoughts, like how I'm I going to feed, bathe, care for these beautiful babies. I thank God for blessings and wonderful support from friends and family. They were my life saver in times of need. NOW, I have four children, it can be challenging because they different needs and personality, but you do your best as parents. My youngest is a boy and quite a handful but love him to pieces. He's growing so fast and I wish he wouldn't. I'm process of boxing some of his gently uses clothes and other items he didn't use to donate or sell. If your interested I'll be happy to give them to you. Contact me 3922227. God blesse and best wishes to your family

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Bernard Makuaole
36 months ago

As a father of 5 of which includes now 12 year old triplets Chevy makes a 12 passenger extended 2500 express van, which rides easier than the 3500 series, in my case first row had one car seat so my wife could sit close if needed and the second had 2 and my 2 older sat in the back row I could also put my inline triple stroller in the back without disassembling or just folding the jogger, best wishes and lots of prayers, and ask for an hour a day just for you to get away because it does get overwhelming

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Victor Ing
38 months ago

Sometime we pray for a blessing but Jesus loves the little children. Victor

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Tisha Good
38 months ago

I will help you by taking not just one but 2of your boys! Lol

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Takara Gallinger
36 months ago
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I highly recommend looking into CLOTH DIAPERS. Tons of support groups on facebook. You will save lots of $$$$

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Lita Caralos
35 months ago

Hi QuintS, although I didn't have quintuplets. My first pregnancy I was blessed with twins and that in itself was overwhelming. It was truly a blessing but it took a while for my brain to process everything. My mind was racing with thoughts, like how I'm I going to feed, bathe, care for these beautiful babies. I thank God for blessings and wonderful support from friends and family. They were my life saver in times of need. NOW, I have four children, it can be challenging because they different needs and personality, but you do your best as parents. My youngest is a boy and quite a handful but love him to pieces. He's growing so fast and I wish he wouldn't. I'm process of boxing some of his gently uses clothes and other items he didn't use to donate or sell. If your interested I'll be happy to give them to you. Contact me 3922227. God blesse and best wishes to your family

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Bernard Makuaole
36 months ago

As a father of 5 of which includes now 12 year old triplets Chevy makes a 12 passenger extended 2500 express van, which rides easier than the 3500 series, in my case first row had one car seat so my wife could sit close if needed and the second had 2 and my 2 older sat in the back row I could also put my inline triple stroller in the back without disassembling or just folding the jogger, best wishes and lots of prayers, and ask for an hour a day just for you to get away because it does get overwhelming

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Victor Ing
38 months ago

Sometime we pray for a blessing but Jesus loves the little children. Victor

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Tisha Good
38 months ago

I will help you by taking not just one but 2of your boys! Lol

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