I want to break free...

In 2022 after the pandemic I moved with my family to Aotearoa New Zealand. Sadly my marriage broke down and I was forced to move back to England. Between the move, the split, and starting a life back in England, I have been left with £35,000 in debt. I'm working every moment I can to rebuild my life, but despite having my kids more than 50% of the time I get no financial support (my ex takes all of the government benefits for them), and despite working every extra hour I can get, servicing debt now takes more than a quarter of my salary every month. I just want to be free from this. It's breaking me.