Urgent Help for Divorce and Life Rebuilding

Hello Facebook… I am starting a go fund me to help pay for a divorce Lawyer. My soon to be ex-wife had control of all our finances and used the money to fund a relationship between her and the guy she was having an affair with. Instead of using the money to pay bills on time, she used it for her own means. She had stopped paying the mortgage and by the time I found out, it was 3 months behind and on the verge of foreclosure. She frauded the insurance company by making a claim to fix various problems around the house and property which included foundation work, leaking pipes, and a flooded apartment that is adjacent to the home. None of which was fixed despite the insurance company issuing checks to the sum of $40,000 in which $25,000 of it is unaccounted for. Please, I need your help on in hiring a lawyer to divorce this woman so that I can move on with my life, and try to rebuild at least part of what she destroyed.