To Creating a Difference

My name is Ryan Bates, and I am a member of SLU Swim and Dive. This past year, I ended a six-year relationship with the person I thought I would spend the rest of my life with, my grandfather was diagnosed with cancer and has a poor prognosis, and my mom, who is taking care of her father, is being pressured by the company she works for and may lose her job. Frankly, the world has thrown too many punches, and that has caused me to lose myself. Due to these events, I went through some of the darkest days I have ever experienced, where every day seemed like an avalanche I would have to wade through. I remember consistently telling myself to get through one more day, and that one more day eventually became weeks and months. Yet, I know that I would not have gotten through this without the support of my teammates, loved ones, and friends who were there by my side.

However, this GoFundMe is not about me. I tell my story to showcase why I am writing these words. I want to raise money for those still going through the dark battles of life, who may feel alone and deserted. For those in this period, know that even if I don’t know your name, your life, or your situation, I will fight for you. This brings me to what I am doing to raise money. I am a swimmer for a reason, and I despised running for the vast majority of my life. So, I am taking something that I once hated and performing that task to the best of my ability by running the St. Louis Marathon.

If you are a charity or researcher interested in being a recipient of the money I raise, please contact me on Instagram. Thank you for all that you do for mental health.

If you are a potential donor, I swear to you that every cent raised will be going to a charity or study designed to help those with mental health issues. I plan on posting where exactly each cent is going on this page, so if any concerns are present, please contact me on Instagram. Thank you and know that your support does not go unnoticed.

If you are someone who resonates with this cause but doesn’t have money to spare, please spread the word. The world is a harsh place today, and know that sometimes the smallest voice can be the loudest. Thank you for your support.

If you are someone who resonates with my story and have gone through the same dark place that I have, then know that I am so, so proud of you for making it through. If you are comfortable sharing your story and want to make a difference, please contact me at my Instagram.

If you are at a period in your life where you feel it is all crumbling down, know that I support you and will do everything in my power to help you through this time. Try and take the simplest step you can and work from there. For me, it was staring myself in the mirror and telling myself that I can’t keep going through this, and that means I have to change. If you need support or want someone to talk to, please contact me at my Instagram.