Hi, my name is Zoe. I’m 26 years old, living in the UK, but my heart has always been split between here and Australia.

In August 2024, I lost my mum. Writing that still doesn’t feel real. Losing her has been the most painful, life-changing experience I’ve ever been through. I used my savings travelling back and forth to Australia to organise her funeral, say goodbye properly, and be with my family during those devastating weeks. I don’t regret a single penny — but it did leave me financially drained.

Just as I was trying to find my feet again, we were hit with more heartbreaking news.

My Nan — one of the most beautiful, kind, and important people in my life — has been diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. She has already endured two rounds of chemotherapy and is now going through immunotherapy. There is no cure. We are living day by day, holding onto hope, and treasuring every moment.

Being on the other side of the world while she is going through this is one of the hardest feelings I’ve ever experienced. I love the life I’ve built in the UK, and I run my own business to support myself, but emotionally and financially it has been overwhelming trying to carry grief, responsibility, and distance all at once.

I am raising £5000 so I can travel back to Australia to spend meaningful time with my Nan while I still can. This will help cover flights, time away from my business, and living costs while I’m there.

This isn’t about anything material. It’s about sitting beside her. Holding her hand. Listening to her stories. Hugging her for a little longer. Creating memories that I’ll carry with me for the rest of my life.

I feel ashamed even asking for help. I’ve always tried to handle everything on my own. But grief has taught me that sometimes we need community.

If you’re able to donate, even a small amount, it would mean more than I can explain. And if you can’t, sharing this page is just as appreciated.

Thank you for reading my story. Thank you for helping me be where my heart needs to be.

Zoe