Hello, This is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to write because I’m not someone who asks for help. I’ve always taken pride in pushing through, staying strong, and handling life head on, no matter the challenges. But right now, I find myself in a place where I can’t keep pretending I’m okay.

Not long ago, I lost my beautiful daughter, my firstborn, my heart. Since then, I’ve been showing up to life the best I can… but truthfully, I haven’t had the chance to truly grieve. I’ve continued working day to day, holding it together on the outside while barely holding it together on the inside. I recently tried to apply for disability benefits just to create some space to heal, to breathe, and to grieve , but I was denied.

So now, I’m humbly asking for support. Anything can go a long way.

I’m in hopes to step away from the day to day . Time to sit with the pain. Time to spend with my son, and begin healing without the pressure of wondering how I’ll make ends meet. The weight of grief, mixed with financial stress, is pulling me further from the man, father, and professional I know I should be.

The funds raised will go directly towards my family responsibilities, giving me the space to grieve without financial restraint, so I can be present with my loved ones, reconnect with myself, and slowly start to rebuild. Even a little means the world to me right now. A little can go a long way.

Thank you for reading this. Thank you for your support, your prayers, and your kindness. It means more than I can ever express.

With love,

Tony