It is with a heavy heart, yet a deep sense of strength, that I reach out to you today. Recently, my dad has been diagnosed with Stage 4 terminal cancer in his abdomen, and now, the cancer has spread throughout his body. There are no treatment options left, and we are now focused on making sure his final days are as comfortable and peaceful as possible. This has been the hardest reality my family has ever had to face, but we are doing everything we can to cherish the time we have left with him. We had hoped to get hospice care to help ease his pain and support my mom as his condition worsens, but we were recently denied. That rejection was devastating, leaving us scrambling to find alternative care, knowing that time is not on our side.

For now, our insurance is covering some assistance, but that support is temporary. My mom, who many of you know is small but full of strength, simply cannot care for my dad alone. His needs are growing daily, and we are desperate to find the resources to make sure he is cared for in the way he deserves.

With my birthday approaching, friends and family have been asking me what I want. But I don’t want gifts or a celebration. This year, all I want is to spend time with my dad—to hold onto every moment, to be present, and to help my mom navigate this incredibly painful journey. I know this will be the last birthday he will see me turn another year older, and that alone makes it more meaningful than anything else.

I know times are tough for many, and asking for help is not easy. But, if you are able to contribute, even the smallest donation will go directly toward my dad’s medical care, home assistance, and easing the burden on my mom. If you are unable to donate, sharing this fundraiser and it’s definitely okay. Your support and love, you have given to my family has been more than enough.

With love and gratitude,

Pea