Support Mike Durfee's family in time of need

Hello, my name is Nick Durfee. My dad (in the photo) passed away 2 weeks ago. Now it is just me and my little brother who have to take on my dad's house and current bills. My family and I live in Oregon currently but have to stay down in Temecula, CA to finish tying up all the loose ends. Unfortunately, that means I have no source of income for the time being. I am not the kind of person to ask for help or any handouts. But I am in a position now where me, my little brother, and my own family are needing help. I am reaching out on behalf of everyone in my family; we need help for groceries, basic necessities, and bills. Between paying for rent and bills for my home in Oregon, we also have to maintain the bills for my dad's house in California. Thank you to anyone willing to help.