Hi everyone,
Over the course of several years and especially in the past two weeks, my home environment has become too unsafe for me emotionally and physically, and I made the difficult decision to leave for my own safety. As much as I love my parents, I can no longer exist in the same space as them, as it has become clear over the past several years that the environment at home has become harmful to my mental health and safety. Leaving was not a decision I made lightly and they have also established that I am not welcome back as I am.
Over the past few days, I've been struggling with my mental health and took myself to evaluation in the ER last night after a crisis. Right now my focus is on staying safe, stabilizing, and being on my feet as I navigate my next steps in terms of housing, income, transportation, work, etc., while I go through my healing process.
Because I had to leave home suddenly, I'm currently trying to secure safe temporary housing and cover basic living expenses while I figure out my next steps. I am very blessed to have supportive communities that have granted me the opportunity to house with them temporarily, but I can only stay with them for so long. I'm raising funds to help with essentials such as food, transportation, medical and mental health care, and other basic needs while I work toward stability.
The last few months of my life, especially the last few weeks, have been the hardest moments of my life, but I'm committed to getting through it and building a healthier, safer future. Asking for help like this is not easy for me, but right now I’m doing my best to prioritize my safety and recovery. Any support, whether through donating or sharing this fundraiser, would mean more to me than I can express.
As a final message, never let anyone dim or dictate the course of your life no matter your relationship with them. To live according to what aligns with you is the bravest and most authentic thing you can do in the one lifetime we have and everyone deserves to exist in a space where they are appreciated as they are. Be kind to yourself and uplift the people around you.