A New Chapter for My Daughters and Me: Help Finalize Divorce

Hi, my name is Dillon, and I’m reaching out with a vulnerable request — for myself, for my daughters, and for the life we’re building together.

Nearly five years ago, my ex-partner and I separated. Since then, the divorce process has been long, complicated, financially draining, and emotionally heavy. What was once just a legal matter has become a lingering weight — one that continues to affect our ability to co-parent with clarity and peace.

I am the father of two incredible girls — my daughter and my stepdaughter — and I’ve been present, loving, and committed to them throughout. But the unresolved legal side of this separation continues to create tension and uncertainty, especially now.

Why I’m Raising Funds

Recently, my ex has taken me back to court, seeking full legal custody in healthcare and education decisions. This has made it even more urgent to finalize our divorce and establish fair custody through the courts.

I’ve done everything I can to resolve this peacefully over the years, including many mediations out of pocket, but the process has stalled again and again. I simply want what’s best for the girls: shared custody, stability, and clear boundaries that allow us to co-parent in the healthiest way possible.

The Financial Breakdown

• $1,116 – Past-due balance owed

• $2,000 – Current retainer required

• $6,000–$8,000 – Estimated additional costs to move forward and finalize divorce.

That puts my fundraising goal at $10,000. These funds will cover past, current, and upcoming legal expenses, filings, and court costs so this process can finally come to a close. Without your help, I risk trial, which could double the costs or more.

Why This Matters

This is not about blame. It’s about resolution. It’s about giving our daughters the gift of stability, clarity, and a home life free of ongoing legal battles. It’s about creating the space for all of us to move forward into a healthier co-parenting relationship.

I know this is a vulnerable ask. But if you feel called to help — whether through a donation or by sharing this — please know your support goes directly toward creating a healthier future for our family.

Every contribution helps bring us closer to peace, stability, and freedom.

With gratitude,

Dillon