My 40th birthday is coming up and honestly, I have *everything* I could ever need. An amazing partner, a daughter who inspires and challenges me every day, the best friends anyone could ask for, and a family — by blood and by choice — who always have my back. I feel so full and grateful. ❤️

But I wouldn’t have any of this if a stranger hadn’t “found” me eight years ago and helped me get the support I needed. So this year, instead of asking for gifts, I want to give one.

For my birthday, I want to “find” someone else — specifically a pregnant woman who’s struggling and needs the same kind of help I once did. I’m raising funds to help her get treatment and ongoing support as she steps into recovery and motherhood.

The biggest gift of my life has been becoming Evie’s mom — and I could never have done it without my recovery and the love of the people who showed up for me. Now I want to pass that on.

So here’s the fun part: Evie and I are baking cookies every week for the next 9 weeks to raise money for this cause! Each order is a dozen cookies — no set price, just donate whatever feels right. Local friends can pick up or arrange to get delivery, and if you’re not nearby but still want to support, I’ll gift cookies in your name. There are 2 options: chocolate chip or sprinkle cookies. If you are choosing to order, please text me (714) 317 - 6220 so that we can arrange delivery or pick up. If you are simply donating, I thank you in advance!

Every single dollar will go directly to helping this cause. My goal Is to support her through treatment, sober living and help provide all the basic necessities needed for early motherhood while she gets on her feet.

***I AM CURRENTLY LOOKING FOR A WOMAN TO SPONSOR. IF YOU KNOW SOMEONE WHO IS CURRENTLY PREGNANT AND IN ACTIVE ADDICTION, PLEASE REACH OUT TO ME***

Sending love to all of you ❤️