I’m 38 years old and starting my life completely over. For the past ten years, I was in a relationship where I gave everything—my love, my trust, and my sense of self. I worked hard to better myself, even spending time in the hospital to address my mental health, hoping it would help our relationship. But when I returned home on Valentine’s Day 2025, I discovered my partner had moved on with someone else. The shock and heartbreak were overwhelming, especially after learning he had hidden this relationship for over a year.
As I tried to process what happened, I was given three months to leave the home I had lived in for years. Our cats were like our children, and leaving them behind was devastating. I left with only two black trash bags of clothes, feeling lost and alone. For years, I was financially dependent on my partner—so much so that I couldn’t even afford basic necessities. He controlled every aspect of my life, from tracking my movements to monitoring me with cameras inside the house. I never felt safe or comfortable, and I lost my sense of self-worth.
Now, I am determined to rebuild. I am seeking help to cover living expenses, housing essentials, and personal care items—things I’ve gone without for too long. My disabilities make it hard to work while I fight for the support I deserve, but I am hopeful for a fresh start. Asking for help is not easy for me; I’ve worked since I was 14 and have always been independent. But if anyone is willing to donate or share my story, I would be deeply grateful. I promise to give back and support others once I’m back on my feet. Thank you for reading my story and for any kindness you can offer.
As I tried to process what happened, I was given three months to leave the home I had lived in for years. Our cats were like our children, and leaving them behind was devastating. I left with only two black trash bags of clothes, feeling lost and alone. For years, I was financially dependent on my partner—so much so that I couldn’t even afford basic necessities. He controlled every aspect of my life, from tracking my movements to monitoring me with cameras inside the house. I never felt safe or comfortable, and I lost my sense of self-worth.
Now, I am determined to rebuild. I am seeking help to cover living expenses, housing essentials, and personal care items—things I’ve gone without for too long. My disabilities make it hard to work while I fight for the support I deserve, but I am hopeful for a fresh start. Asking for help is not easy for me; I’ve worked since I was 14 and have always been independent. But if anyone is willing to donate or share my story, I would be deeply grateful. I promise to give back and support others once I’m back on my feet. Thank you for reading my story and for any kindness you can offer.




