Hi everyone,
My name is Ryan, and I'm reaching out with a humble heart and a hopeful spirit.
I've met someone truly special — a woman who has brought light, love, and meaning into my life. She lives in Kenitra, Morocco, and after deep conversations, video calls, and emotional connection, we both believe that this is something real — something worth fighting for.
I am originally from Maui, Hawai'i and currently reside in Austin, Texas. In 2023, cities in Maui, mainly Lahaina were destroyed by a tragic wildfire. Although my family and I were blessed to not have had been affected drastically, I did feel the financial challenge afterwards. Once the fires occurred, my peers and I immediate jumped to assist those affected. This ranged anywhere from direct financial assistance, to housing placement, food preparation and distribution, various needs/supplies were provided. I literally emptied my bank accounts and savings without hesitation to provide any assistance possible. Some would say this was foolish and not a wise move on my part. In Hawaiian there is a word, Kuleana - which defined is Responsibility. Being previously successful with earning and growing my money, I thought nothing of spending in what was provided for me. Money comes, money goes... but when your community is in need, you act. We also raised thousands of dollars for families and individuals struck with tragedy and uncertainty.
Why am I saying this? Just simply giving you an insight to as why I decided to embrace vulnerability and create this gofundme.
I recently moved to Austin, TX to try to get my life back rolling again. In doing so, I've faced many challenges... one of them being sustaining and stable employment. I've been working to rebuild my life and have been searching endlessly for something stable and that pays a living wage. Shocker, in America.... it's been difficult. There are many opportunities and I continue to apply and interview for them. The market here is saturated and competitive. Even with an impressing resume and work history, I've struck out more times than I've ever experienced in my life. And then, the universe, God, ect. blesses me with a wonderful partner who I believe may be my potential wife. I've prayed for this and of course, it works in mysterious ways. Now I have the challenge of flying to Kentira to meet her and her family physically. It's been defeating... Paycheck-to-paycheck is an understatement. My current employment doesn't pay well, doesn't promote overtime, and my side job is sparingly active. I thought maybe the kindness we give with no expectation of return could come back in a karmic fashion... This I pray.
This isn't just a trip. It's a journey of love, commitment, and building a future together. But international travel isn't cheap, and that's where I'm asking for your help. Between the cost of flights, travel documents, accommodations, and other expenses, it's more than I can manage alone right now.
I’m raising $7,777.00 to help cover:
Airfare
Passport/visa costs
Local travel and lodging
Basic travel expenses
*if all goes well, which we believe will be so, the costs involved in marriage licensing.
Every dollar, share, and prayer gets me one step closer to finally holding the hand of the woman I love (after we are married of course). Your support means more than I can express. Whether you donate or simply share this campaign, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Love knows no borders — and with your help, I’ll be able to prove that.
With gratitude,
Ryan


