
Rory❤️SupportUnited
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Hi my name's Kelli and I'm Rory's mother. 8months ago my 11yr old Rory attempted suicide by hanging himself. He was dead for 20 minutes and I got the all parents worst nightmare call in the middle of the night that my son was in critical condition in an induced coma . I arrived to a horrific scene of my son in constant seizure knowing that being dead for 20 minutes meant he would either be brain dead or severely brain damaged. I spent every single waking moment by his side for 4months on my own having no family or support. The day came when he was to be taken off life support and was told he would most definitely pass away. He is a tough little boy like his mum and of course he breathed and never stopped. I watched him gradually come to and the brain damage was very confronting and traumatising. All though after a couple of months in the hospital he gained his sight, his hearing and his entire memory was intact absolute miracle! Although he cannot move at all or talk at all which is how my son who's now only 12 has to spend the rest of his life which no-one knows how long that will be. After severe neglect due to the hospital being short staffed my son now lives in a disability home where he cannot build relationships with majority of the nurses due to language/culture barrier and I am funding alot of his necessities and also his birthday and Christmas was expensive. I have been out of work for 5years nearly due to spine problems and I have atleast another year of physio etc before I can get disability allowance so I'm now since the accident in severe financial hardship with no support. I never ask for help so this is awkward but I refuse to be embarrassed I am behind in my bills, I've had to cut off luxuries like Foxtel etc i cannot afford food so I get food from victory life, a church who has lovely people who because of my situation pray with and for me and give me extra groceries Thank God. Because of my back though I am very limited to anything physical so it's been a struggle. I currently catch taxis to see my son, I have a full licence now so have been wanting and needing to save for a car but I'm unable to afford to. I also need a private lawyer to get my son home as he suffers tremendously in the home and wants to go home. I also want to landscape a small garden for him to look at instead of him staring outside to a patch of dirt. I do Alot for my son, not just financially, if I don't arrive like I'm a clown that's just come from entertaining a children's birthday party my son would pick up on my sadness and stress because he's very intuitive so I do anything I can to put a smile on his face which is hard but I'm a good clown I spose haha and I get it done. I have no friends on my FB so I thought ide try my luck with technology for a start lol and just add as many people as possible and pray for the best. Thankyou so much for taking the time to read my situation if you cannot afford anything to spare! Sometimes we all need somebody to lean on or vent to and it's made me feel better just writing this. I highly appreciate any financial help even if it's just a dollar, I do plan on just continuing to add even if I have to go global...wish me luck everyone God Bless you all and take care! Thankyou all so much! Seriously
Also Im more than happy to provide any photos, videos, evidence of my situation if need be or if you have any questions please don't hesitate to send me a msg on messanger
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Kelli Marr
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Thornlie, WA