My Two Angels Gone, Bring One Home

Hello, my name is Kipp Miller & on Sep 4th 2016, my wife of over 5 yrs. had died unexpectedly & it has been gut wrenching for me every day since. Due to legal restraints, I can’t go into all the details that I would like to but if you find this unbelievable I’m sure there is a way for you to get the whole story and it too will make you wonder how in the world could this happen.

I met Ashley early 2010 and it wasn’t long after we started dating when she introduced me to her 1 yr. 10 mo. old daughter Jordan. Jordan’s biological father was always too busy to have any kind of relationship with her and it didn’t take me long to realize that I loved Ashley and that Jordan was a part of the package and I had no problem with that. Over the next few years we were having a great life as a family enjoying everything it had to offer. We lived in a great neighborhood with highly rated schools, amazing friends, family outings etc.… Then the biological father that rarely had time for his daughter decided to start filing false claims of parental alienation against us in Feb 2015. We had faith in the legal system and figured it would be so easy for the courts to see the truth but we were completely wrong with that assumption. Instead the lies kept coming from the father and the system kept dismissing or not even reading the facts that we had submitted and it all snowballed to a decision the courts made to give the father temporary custody of our daughter on Nov 19th 2015. When we told Jordan that we had to fly her up to her father’s and that she was going to live with him now she collapsed to the ground and started to shake and cry uncontrollably. She continuously asked why and we honestly did not have an answer for her because we didn’t know why either when the courts never took the time to have anyone visit our home or realize that we had a great family setting and that Jordan was doing very well and no such claims the father made were even remotely true. Then the courts added salt to the wounds by not allowing us to have any visitation and only two phone calls a week at 7 pm and for no longer than fifteen minutes in length and the father was allowed to monitor the calls and end them early if he deemed necessary. So of course, we rarely could speak with our daughter for a full fifteen minutes because the father usually found a reason to end early due to some activity he had planned for Jordan during our court appointed time. For us to have any chance of visitation, we had to show thirty days of proper communication with our daughter and were given a set of rules to follow. I will list only two of them because they alone will give you a good idea of how ridiculous the others were as well.

1.       Ashley could not cry while talking with our daughter.

2.       We could not talk about any future visitation or any language that referred to possible activities we might do when we see her in the future.

Because of the deceit and the complete failure of the legal system along with the rules given to us for our conversations with our daughter, my wife and I did not get to see, hold, hug or kiss Jordan since Nov 19th 2015 to the date of Sep 4th 2016 the day my wife/Jordan's mommy died. We had a total of 78 phone calls with our daughter for an average of 11 minutes in length that equates to a total of 14.3 hours of phone conversation that spanned over 290 days. If you recall, I stated how the father claimed to the court that we were guilty of parental alienation and ultimately that is why they took Jordan from us. You can tell by what took place neither the father or the courts were concerned about parental alienation or the effects it was having on Jordan and us. Since that tragic day the father has not allowed me or anyone else on this side of the family to speak with or see Jordan. We have no idea what he has told her or how she is doing. The days just prior Nov 19th 2015 we had told Jordan that we will never stop fighting to bring her back home and I’m not going to let her down. Even though I have basically no rights, I am going to fight for full custody of our daughter Jordan because I have helped Ashley raise her since before she was 2 yrs. old as if she was my own blood and I love her with all my heart. I also know that Jordan loves me with all her heart and she knows me as Dad and knows that I’m the Dad that changed her diapers, helped potty train her, taught her to ride bike, read bedtime stories to her & so much more. The bond we have is unbreakable.

The financial burden that we incurred with all the attorney fees prior and up to Ashley’s death is massive. I was laid off from work just weeks’ prior my wife’s death and with memorial expenses and hospital bills along with me continuing the battle to gain full custody of our daughter because it is in the best interests of Jordan to be back home with me, her Dad. Now I must swallow my pride in a massive way to ask for financial assistance but that is what I’m needing to do to get my little Angel Jordan back home. I can’t guarantee that I will be able to or how long it will take, but I will do everything in my power to pay everyone back that has helped me with this fight. The first hearing will be Nov 18th 2016 which is on the eve of the day we had to take our daughter Jordan to go live with her father and ultimately destroyed a perfectly happy family.

I’m currently making an Urn for my wife’s ashes and I am posting photos showing the various stages of me working on it. Once completed, I’m going to make a keepsake box for Jordan from the same piece of burl wood. To show my appreciation for those of you that are making contributions, supply me with your address and I will send you a heart made by me from the same piece of burl wood that is being used for my wife’s urn and my daughter’s keepsake box. The pain that I have in my heart is unbearable at times knowing that my little Angel Jordan is lying in bed at night wondering what’s going on and I can't hold her to help her with the pain she is feeling or even answer the questions that she has and to make it worse I no longer have my wife beside me that I so dearly miss. If you can, please help.

From the bottom of my heart thank you for just taking the time and reading this even if you decide not to contribute. Thank you.


If your wondering what these last two photos are showing. The pic just prior this one is the front of my tool box and we had a etching tool that Ashley really liked, so she etched in our names with our wedding date. This last one catches most of the sign Ashley made that she hung over the door going outside and as you can see it says Jordan & Mom. Ashley was always making something and I treasure them all. 

13 Nov 2016 _ I've completed Ashley's Urn now and it's taken much longer than I had expected. I had some mess-ups that I had to fix and had a couple close calls that would've meant me starting all over so I'm thankful that didn't happen. I really don't know what to say except that it's been a different journey for me with many emotions and just flat out getting lost in my thoughts and stairing at whatever is in front of me at the time. Now it's time for me to transfer Ashley to the Urn which I already know is going to be so many more emotions so just like the last couple days, I may not be posting anything. Thanks for understanding and thanks for your support. - Kipp




17 Nov 2016 - As most of you know there was a court date set for Friday the 18th to kick off me going for custody of Jordan. Some of you are aware that Ashley & I had a court date set for Sep 2nd to modify the temp visitation and prove that we were following the ridiculous rules that were set for us to follow. We had just came back from Iowa from visiting my family and were getting prepped to make our trip up to Vancouver for the hearing and thinking that this will be a wonderful birthday present for Ashley to finally be allowed to see, hold & kiss Jordan for the first time in over 9 months. In the afternoon of Monday Aug 29th we were notified that the Judge cancelled the hearing date and was pushed out two more weeks due to him taking vacation or something along those lines. Ashley said, "Well I guess we should've known that this could happen again." Now back to present time. Tuesday the 15th I was notified that the hearing date was cancelled and pushed out to Dec 2nd due to the Judge having a family emergency. Once again another delay in trying to help our Angel Jordan. Obviously the family emergency I have going on can take the back seat to anything and everything that pops up for either the Judge, the GAL, the bio-father or his attorney. We are talking about a little girls emotional state of mind here and they literally don't care. I try and not let it get me down but it's tough. I'm going to remain positive and move forward for Jordan's state of mind. 
The 15th was a tough night all the way around. I wasn't able to transfer Ashley's ashes when I had immediatly finished the Urn because it was too tough to do at that time. It didn't get any easier on this night either and words can't describe what I all felt. I don't know if anyone reading this has done that before but trust me, your mind is flooded with countless memories & thoughts and everything else and then even more. But I did and now I have Ashley in her final resting place surrounded by the flowers that were at her Celebration of Life Service that I had for Ashley in our backyard with our friends and family here in Ripon. I had dried out all the flowers and placed them back inside Ashley's glass purse collection that we had used for vases. The roses behind Ashley are the roses that the guests and I had place individually by a large photo of Ashley.
Thanks for reading and thanks again for your support. - Kipp


 17 December 2016 _ So, everyone if you haven’t heard the court’s decision on if I can move ahead with de facto parent or not. The judge stated that I cannot because I didn’t meet all the requirements which is BS and then the judge stated that to file again I need to get the verbiage changed in legislation before he would consider it. Basically, it’s their way of trying to shut me up because he knows that himself and others have royally screwed this case up and he’s afraid of opening Pandora’s box. Well let me open that box and start telling you the facts of the case. We all know that Kent Walker is the person I am referring to when I say bio. I’m going to continue to use bio as I see it as very fitting for him. Bio had filed contempt against Ashley in February 2015 just one week after he had vacated a felony he had been found guilty of for possession of a controlled substance (DRUGS). Of course, when he was asked about his criminal history he omitted the felony as well as many other things and reported that he had one DUI and some other minor charge. In the February 2015 filing by Bio, he claimed that we weren’t going to let him have Jordan on her B-day and that we would never let him talk with Jordan. Those were lies and let’s make it simple. When I state something that Bio has claimed, rest assured it’s a lie unless I clarify that it’s not a lie. Jordan flew to Bellingham to spend her bday with bio and after the weekend visit we then were notified from Bio that he had noticed Jordan’s tooth was black when she arrived on Friday and that he was so concerned for her health that he made an appointment with family dentist in Prairie and sadly it cut into her bday fun time at Great Wolf Lodge. He then filed with the courts stating that we were neglecting Jordan’s health by not taking care of her tooth when clearly, it’s been black for a long time. We sent photos of Jordan that were taken just one week prior her departure to the GAL and it showed all white teeth. Then just 4 weeks later it was Father’s Day and Jordan was to fly up to Bellingham to spend the weekend with bio. Jordan woke up that day crying uncontrollably stating that she was afraid of bio and please don’t make her go. We were court ordered to get her on the plane. When we were at the ticket counter for Alaskan Airlines Jordan started crying again stating she was afraid of bio. The ticket agent stopped Jordan from being able to board the flight and that agent did file a report stating as such. Bio of course filed contempt stating that we were interfering with his parenting time and that Jordan always has a great time on her visits and it must be mom causing these fears. Commissioner Liebman agreed with bio and we asked for a continuance until the official report comes in from AA but the commissioner said I don’t care what the report says it’s the mothers fault and she’s the one putting these fears into Jordan which was causing her to act up. Now I’m going to back up a little. We had found out that a big fight between bio and his girlfriend Krystal Provencher while they were at Great Wolf Lodge on Jordan’s bday. The official report made by the security manager of GWL per statements from Krystal that on Friday they got into a fight and bio took her phone and wouldn’t give it back (illegal) and stood in front of the door and would not allow them to leave (illegal) Krystal told her daughter to run for the sliding glass door and try to escape that way. Bio ran over and slammed the door on Krystal’s daughters head causing bruising and swelling. There’s much more in the report that I’m not going to touch on right now. Now you would think the GAL and Commissioner should be able to see through bio’s lies with this report being out. Clearly the fun didn’t end because Jordan had a black tooth. The fun ended because bio couldn’t control himself and chose to hold his gf against her will and cause bodily injury to a child. No if we proved Jordan’s tooth was white when she left but in fact went to the dentist with a black tooth. How did she get the black tooth? If bio has no problem causing injury to gf’s daughter, then I’m sure he doesn’t have any issues in causing harm to his own daughter which he proves everyday by not letting Jordan speak with me or any of this side of the family. Then 4 weeks later Jordan is terrified and is stating she’s afraid of bio and doesn’t want to go it makes all the sense in the world after you know what the GWL reports has stated. Jordan didn’t act up because Ashley made her act up. Jordan acted up out of genuine fear of her bio. But bio lied under oath in order to protect himself and point the finger at us. His gf is just as guilty for her sick role in all of this by still dating and living with a guy that hurts children and has no problem in doing so. She and bio’s parents all condone child abuse. You would also think that the GAL Elizabeth Arwood, Commmisioner Liebman, his then attorney Teresa Foster, Judge Rulli and now attorney Mike Roe would see that bio is a sick person for the lies he’s made and the ability to cause harm to a child and not blink an eye. This small example is what Kent Walker, his parents Lynn & Tim, girlfriend Krystal and the others named just prior view as acceptable and was the foundation of the case in where they unjustly and illegally took Jordan away from Ashley and I and continued to degrade us all the while bio and partners in crime continued to try and push aside their mistakes and ultimately killing my wife, Jordan’s mommy and the mental child abuse continues to this day by him not letting Jordan see me or speak with me or anyone on this side of the family. Kent and his accomplices are all ok with this form of child abuse and none of them want to stand up for Jordan and protect her. They are more concerned about their own careers and all Kent wanted to do was take Jordan away from us just like he has been stating to Jordan ever since she was a small child. He and everyone that supports him is pure evil for doing this. This is just a small sample of what I will be getting out to the public so everyone gets to see what he’s doing. He is trying to erase Jordan’s memories of her mother and me. He is so afraid to let Jordan see me because he knows that she will grab a hold of me and not let go and even more stories of neglect and abuse will come out. How does bio, his girlfriend, his parents, and everyone else that supports him in this form of abuse think that they can keep the truth from Jordan. You can’t stop a person from accessing the internet, making phone calls, talking to people forever. They all are sick to put their selfish needs in front of Jordan’s needs. Spread the word. Thanks - Kipp

19 December 2016 _ Here’s some more facts from the case. One of bio’s claims that he told the GAL Elizabeth Arwood and the court was that he had regular visitation with Jordan that consisted of every other weekend from age one until we moved to California in August 2011 but he can’t supply any photos to prove this and that prior us moving and even after we moved he claims he would call Jordan two to three times a week. The real story is that bio only saw Jordan approximately 8 times in her first 3 ½ years of life and when Ashley had told him that she was pregnant, he threatened Ashley’s and his unborn child’s life if she didn’t have an abortion. He hid from the State to try and avoid the paternity test. Bio didn’t even tell his family that Ashley was pregnant nor did he tell his parents that they had a granddaughter when Jordan was born. Ashley told bio’s (Kent Walkers) parents that Jordan was there granddaughter and that they are more than welcome to be a part of Jordan’s life because Ashley wanted Jordan to have as much family around her as possible. Ashley did everything in the world to make sure Jordan was surrounded with love. The only reason that Lynn & Tim Walker have a relationship with Jordan is because of Ashley. Kent wanted nothing to do with Jordan which is so pathetic and sad. Since Ashley’s death bio has not let Jordan speak with me or anyone else on this side of the family. He didn’t let Jordan go to her own Mom’s celebration of life. Bio, his gf Krystal Provencher and his parents Lynn and Tim Walker all support bio in his sick ways of trying to erase Jordan’s memory of her mommy and everything that Ashley did for Jordan as well as trying to get Jordan to forget me and the rest of the family on this side. How sick is that to do and for all of them to promote it as well as the court to allow it? The court allows it because they know they screwed up but they would rather look the other way and allow the child abuse to continue. Kent I want to know why are you keeping Jordan away from me and the rest of the family? Why are you so afraid of letting Jordan visit us and talk to us? You afraid of Jordan telling us how your threatening her to be quite about all the horrible things you’re doing? Be a man and let Jordan see us. I bet you haven’t told Jordan about her Mom’s death and that you instead told her that we stopped caring for her and that your thinking that in time Jordan will despise us for giving up on her and then that’s when you will tell her about her Mommy because in your twisted mind it will be better that way.

Here's another pathetic and sickening example of the way the court handled the case when it was clear as day that something is severely wrong in Kent Walker’s & Krystal Provencher’s home. During the summer of 2015 when Jordan was visiting bios home. Ashley and I had found some paper that came out of the small pocket pads of paper that Jordan had written some things on it and then crumpled them up and put them behind her desk in her room. Jordan had written Kent’s & Krystal’s name and the word sex. Ashley and I both thought we were going to vomit when we read that. We immediately scanned copies of the pieces of paper and sent them to the GAL and we filed the information with the court. Guess what was done with the information? Absolutely nothing. The GAL never once talked to us about them nor did the court care or his counsel. Seriously what is the matter with the system that they will push that aside and do nothing? I would think that the father of Krystal’s daughter would be angry and concerned knowing that Kent injured his little girl and that there is a ton of evidence showing that other things are taking place that needs to be investigated but he doesn’t. I guess he’s ok with some other guy hurting his daughter. Trust me, he has been made aware of his daughter being injured but he too turned the other cheek.

With Kent’s screwed up past of dealing drugs, assault, possession, and his mommy getting him out of trouble he thinks he’s above the law. The court has proven that they’re crooked and they are assisting in bio continuing to be the sick pathetic person that he is.

When you see bio in the bars let him know how sick he is as well as his gf for what they are doing to an innocent little girls mind because people this is mental child abuse. This still doesn’t even scratch the surface of everything I must tell. Spread the word. - Kipp

27 Jan 2017

It’s time for an update and to let Bio know that I haven’t gone away as I hold true to my word and our daughter that I will always be here for her and that she can always count on me.

Just recently I was notified that Kent’s attorney told my attorney that I need to stop disparaging Kent as it is inappropriate and potentially actionable. When Bio was, and continues to disparage Ashley & I it was never inappropriate or actionable. In fact, they always turned the other way when we would bring up the false claims made against us. Heck both of his attorneys disparaged Ashley without blinking an eye. For disparaging to be actionable like defamation of character, one of the requirements is that the statements being made need to be untrue, false, lies etc. but my statements are statements of fact not lies. So, Bio take me to court and let’s open these past incidents that I speak about and all the other things that you have lied about that I haven’t even mentioned yet. Let’s get it all out in front of a different judge. I have nothing to fear but I know you do. 

As a reminder of what has taken place you all should read the past statements that I posted. To this day, Kent has not let Jordan visit or speak with me or anyone else on this side of the family. He continues to deny Jordan the right to have a relationship with her family and the ones that raised her. He denied Jordan the right to go to her Moms funeral and to say goodbye. He has never called and asked for any Jordan’s personal belongings that she grew up with at our home with Ashley and I. Kent is guilty of trying to erase Jordan’s memory of her child hood. That is mental child abuse.

Kent claimed we were alienating Jordan from him which was a complete lie. Now look at what he is doing to Jordan. Clearly this is alienating her from us. He even got the court to order Jordan not to call me dad and that she could only call him dad. That too is wrong in so many ways. It was only a couple of months after Kent cried to the court stating it’s wrong for Jordan to call me dad that he was referring to his girlfriend Krystal as mommy to Jordan and was trying to transform Jordan’s mind at that time that Krystal was mommy not Ashley. I have documented proof of this. I can only imagine how they are already having Jordan call Krystal mom so they can continue to try and brainwash Jordan into forgetting her real mom the one that loved her so dearly and with all her heart that daily was always planning countless activities for Jordan but was ultimately torn out and crushed to such a degree due to all the lies, pathetic rules, stall tactics, rescheduling etc. that put us where we are today.

Now for those of you that think I’m making this up or you’re just a hater of Ashley & I, contact me and I will speak with you. I’m an adult and I get it that this craziness can be hard to understand or believe but the reality is that it is all true that I state and I can prove it.

Kipp






































More to come.