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Help my son after false accusations destroyed his life.

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I’m Don Dees, and I’m writing this as a father whose heart is breaking.

My son, Kevin, is a dedicated father of three, a kind and hard-working man, and a longtime professional in the financial services industry. After 22 years of marriage, his life was suddenly and brutally turned upside down.

His wife walked out without warning, moved in with a coworker she had been having an affair with, and never spoke to him again. But the emotional damage wasn’t enough. She began telling lies about him—deeply harmful, reality-twisting lies that turned his children against him and destroyed everything he’d worked so hard to build.

Then, when Kevin tried to reach out—not in anger, but in heartbreak, asking her to stop spreading lies to their children—she filed a cyberstalking charge against him.

Let me be clear: Kevin is not a criminal. He’s a man crushed by betrayal, devastated by alienation from his children, and now fighting for his very future.

This accusation cost him everything.
    •    His career as a financial advisor—gone the moment the charge was filed, even though no trial has taken place.
    •    His reputation, attacked by people who only heard one side of the story.
    •    His relationship with his children, poisoned by manipulation and silence.
    •    And now, his financial security, as he tries to pay legal bills and stay afloat.


Why We Need Help

Kevin never imagined he’d be in this position—needing help to fight for his name, his family, and his future. But we can’t do it alone.

We’re hoping to raise $7,500 to help cover:
    •    Legal defense against the false charge.
    •    Court-related costs and documentation.
    •    Professional support for navigating this abuse and alienation.
    •    Emergency living expenses while he tries to recover and rebuild.

Every dollar helps. Every share could be the one that reaches someone who understands just how common—and cruel—this situation is.


Why This Story Matters

As his father, I’ve watched Kevin break down in tears over the silence of his children. I’ve seen him lose his sense of self, his livelihood, and his faith in fairness. And I know he’s not the only one. Too many good men have had their lives shattered by false accusations and narcissistic abuse—but their stories often go untold.

We’re telling this story not just to get through this crisis, but to say enough is enough. Men deserve to be heard. Fathers deserve their children. And innocent people deserve to defend themselves.

If you can’t donate, please share.

You never know who might see it—and who it might help. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for standing with us.

– Don Dees,
A father fighting for his son
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    Tacoma, WA

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