My family in tough times

My name is Destiny. My family and I have been working towards a self-sufficient homestead dream. Recently, the struggle has gotten worse. Unexpected hardships have caused us to fall behind on bills and the mortgage. We've been working nonstop to fill the gaps, but we just haven't been able to. My husband, Jay, doesn't know I'm making this GoFundMe. He is working so hard to maintain what we have. I'm at a loss on what more I can do but ask for help. And maybe if it's meant to be, I can surprise him before Christmas with the funds to catch up and take a breath. Thank you.