Hi, my name is Craig and I am Megs’ dad. Thank you for taking the time to read our story.

We are reaching out because our daughter Megan – Megs to everyone who knows and love her – is facing the most challenging and life-altering battle imaginable. We are asking for your support to help us give her the care, dignity, and independence she deserves.

Please consider donating whatever you can and sharing this page widely. Every pound truly makes a difference.

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Who Megs Was Before Illness Took Over

Before 2019, Megs was unstoppable.

She lived life at full speed, throwing herself into everything she did. She was an accomplished rugby player, training alongside players connected with England Rugby while studying for her A-levels at Hartpury College.

She also excelled in hockey, playing for local clubs and taking part in the Torbay Hockey Festival.

Her talents didn’t stop there. She climbed, played football, and dedicated herself to the Air Training Corps. Joining at just 13, she quickly rose through the ranks, becoming the Lord Lieutenant’s Cadet of Gloucestershire and one of the top cadets across the South West.

She became a skilled marksman, competed nationally, and later taught younger cadets. One of her proudest achievements was leading the banner team to second place nationally, earning Best Banner Bearer.

She was strong, focused, and building a future she had worked so hard for.

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When Everything Changed

In 2016, Megs witnessed domestic abuse (from a former ptnr) and coercion — trauma she carried alone for years. Unknown to us, this later led to PTSD.

Despite that, she kept going.

But in October 2019, while attending a cadet course in Cornwall, Megs suffered a massive seizure. Once home, the seizures became frequent and unpredictable — sometimes daily, sometimes multiple in a day.

She would come round exhausted, confused, and frightened, yet still tried to carry on.

In 2020, the truth of her trauma came to light, triggering official investigations and adding emotional strain to an already overwhelming situation.

Still, Megs kept fighting.

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A Series of Devastating Blows

By 2024, after years of seizures and no diagnosis, Megs faced another life-changing event.

Following a routine eye check, she developed optic neuritis and lost 80–90% of her sight. Overnight, her independence vanished. She could no longer safely travel alone, read normally, or cross roads independently.

Then in September 2025, while supporting her passion for first aid, she suffered a life-threatening asthma attack.

During her hospital stay, repeated attempts were made to take blood gases. Shortly afterwards, her arm ballooned and her wrist folded over at a 90-degree angle.

This injury triggered Complex Regional Pain Syndrome (CRPS) — one of the most painful conditions known.

Her wrist became hypersensitive, swollen, and agonising to touch or move.

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The Diagnosis We Never Expected – FND

In April 2026, after another severe asthma attack and multiple seizures, Megs was hospitalised again. She has been in a hospital bed since February, fully dependent on nursing staff for all aspects of care.

At last, we received a diagnosis:

Functional Neurological Disorder (FND)

FND is a condition where the brain struggles to send and receive signals properly, even though there is no structural damage.

The hardware is intact — but the software is malfunctioning.

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How FND Affects Megs

Megs currently experiences:

* Seizures

* Paralysis episodes

* Tremors

* Speech difficulties

* Sensory problems

* Extreme fatigue

She cannot currently:

* Walk independently

* Wash herself

* Sit upright without help

* Reliably communicate during episodes

* Manage day-to-day tasks safely

Even simple activities can trigger severe setbacks.

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Why We Are Asking for £20,000

The reality is that specialist disability equipment is expensive, and while some help may eventually become available, delays are long and Megs’ needs are urgent.

Because her condition can fluctuate, equipment must be tailored specifically to her changing needs.

To make this clearer, we have refined our expected costs below.

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Estimated Essential Costs

️ Bed & Pressure Care – £4,000

* Profiling electric hospital bed

* Pressure-relief mattress

* Safety rails / over-bed support

Washing & Toileting – £2,000

* Specialist shower / commode chair

* Bath access support

* Toilet rails / safety aids

♿ Mobility Equipment – £5,000

* Appropriate wheelchair (manual or powered contribution)

* Ramps

* Walking / standing aids

️ Transfers & Lifting – £2,500

* Electric hoist

* Slings

* Transfer aids for safe movement

Seating & Daily Living – £2,000

* Riser recliner chair

* Pressure cushions

* Posture support seating

Home Adaptations – £3,500

* Bathroom adjustments

* Handrails

* Safety modifications

* Accessibility improvements

Rehabilitation & Ongoing Support – £1,000

* Specialist physiotherapy

* Recovery aids

* Immediate care essentials

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Total Target: £20,000

These figures are realistic estimates based on current needs. Exact items may change depending on Megs’ medical condition, professional advice, and what support becomes available.

Any funds raised will be used solely to improve Megs’ care, safety, comfort, and independence.

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The Bigger Picture

These are not luxuries.

They are essentials that will help:

* Prevent injuries and hospital readmissions

* Reduce pain and physical strain

* Make home care safer

* Restore some dignity and independence

* Give Megs a better quality of life

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How You Can Help

Every donation, no matter how small, makes a real difference.

Your support will help us give Megs:

* Safe care at home

* Specialist equipment

* Rehabilitation opportunities

* Comfort, dignity, and hope

If you cannot donate, sharing this page means just as much.

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Thank You

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for reading, caring, donating, and standing beside us during the hardest chapter of our lives.

With love and gratitude,

Dad, Mum & Family