Hello, my name is Frederick Chilcote. I’m a medically retired U.S. Air Force veteran and the proud father of an amazing boy named Connor.

For years I’ve worked hard to maintain a loving relationship with my son despite the challenges of military service and a difficult co-parenting situation. Unfortunately, informal arrangements have led to unpredictable visitation and limited communication. Connor deserves the stability of having both parents actively involved in his life.

I’m now seeking to establish a formal 50/50 custody agreement so that Connor can spend equal time with each of us and have a consistent, supportive environment. While I am committed to covering as much of the expense as I can, legal representation and court filing fees add up quickly.

Your donation will go directly toward:

Attorney retainer and ongoing legal fees

-Court filing costs and required documentation

-Any additional expenses related to the custody process.

-Every contribution—large or small—brings me closer to ensuring Connor’s future is protected and that he continues to have a strong relationship with both parents. If you can’t contribute financially, sharing this page means the world to us.

Thank you for taking the time to read our story and for supporting a father’s effort to be fully present in his child’s life.

With gratitude,

Frederick Chilcote