Kinship Care Legal Fund — Giving A Girl A Fresh Start

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Kinship Care Legal Fund — Giving A Girl A Fresh Start

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My young cousin is currently living in deeply unsafe and heartbreaking conditions. Her biological parents have refused to enroll her in any form of schooling (not even homeschooling) putting her development, education, and future at serious risk. She’s isolated, confused, and growing up without the structure, protection, or love that every child deserves.

Her two older brothers are now being raised by our grandparents. They only visit their parents briefly and dislike staying for long. Both struggle with behavioral issues stemming from their unstable upbringing, but they’re enrolled in school, participate in activities, and are slowly finding stability.

Their younger sister, however, remains solely in her parents’ care. They rarely allow her to see the rest of the family. When she visits our grandparents, the atmosphere becomes tense and hostile because of her brothers’ behavior. They often lash out at her with cruel words, mock her appearance, and ridicule her for not being allowed to go to school. They've even yanked at or physically attacked her during visits. I’ve had to personally intervene and my phone got slapped out of my hand once.

Her parents have further isolated her by telling her she cannot celebrate holidays or eat certain foods (like beef) due to a religious conversion they’ve imposed solely on her and themselves. They are not welcome at family gatherings and are estranged from everyone.

What breaks my heart most is that she’s a sweet, smart, funny, and otherwise healthy child. She has a warm personality, a gentle spirit, and so much untapped potential. She loves to play tag, interacts well with other kids, and doesn’t let anything get in the way of having a good time. She deserves a chance to grow up in a safe, nurturing home where she can simply be a child.

We are very close, and I am fully prepared to give her that chance. If placed with me, she’ll have:

  • Health insurance (Full Coverage)

  • A safe home in a strong public school district

  • Healthy, trauma-informed parenting

  • Daily stability, unconditional love, and a structured routine

I am a responsible, healthy young adult in my 20s and the eldest cousin on both sides of my family. No criminal record/hospitalizations, a clean driving record, and I’m about to complete my degree in a field that will lead to stable, long-term income. I currently work part-time and take on 8-hour shifts whenever I’m not at college, while maintaining a healthy balance. I’ve never smoked, drank, or used drugs. I love to cook and bake and live a calm, grounded lifestyle. Own a paid off car that has space for a carseat and an active CA driver's license/insurance.

  • I would love for her parents to grow and take on the responsibility of raising all of their own kids. That sadly isn't the case and changes need to be made. Their dysfunction is deeply harming their innocent young children’s mental health, safety, and future.

  • If no one steps up, the state may intervene and my cousins could end up in the foster care system.

Okay, Where Will Donations Go?

I must go through an extensive legal process. This includes terminating her parents’ rights, hiring an ethical private investigator, completing required adoption-related education and home studies, and appearing in court with full documentation.

Your donations will help cover:

  • Legal representation

  • Home study evaluation (court-mandated and expensive)

  • CPR + First Aid + AED certification (court-admissible)

  • Adoption Trauma-Informed Parenting course (court-admissible)

  • Documentation and court filings

  • Investigation services

  • Travel and relocation costs

This is time-sensitive. Every day she stays in her current environment is another day she falls behind in school, misses critical developmental milestones, and is exposed to more trauma. The sooner I can raise the funds, the sooner I can offer her the life, safety, and love she deserves.

For legal and safety reasons, please do not ask for real names, specific locations, or identifying details about the child or family members involved. This fundraiser is being shared with great care to protect everyone’s privacy.

However, I completely understand the need for transparency. I am more than willing to provide proofs such as training certificates (personal details redacted), receipts, and general case-related documents with identifying information blocked out.

Thank you for your understanding, trust, and compassion.

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