Hey everyone,

It’s Saadyah. Things have been really rough lately, and I’m reaching out because I could use some support.

After the divorce, I’ve barely been able to spend real time with my kids. It’s been super limited and supervised for years, even though the people watching those visits keep saying everything looks good—no issues, we get along great, they recommend loosening things up. But it just… hasn’t happened despite consistent reports from professional supervisors recommending a transition to unsupervised visits. These reports, spanning year after year, highlight the positive bond we share and affirm that there's no reason to restrict our time together.

It’s been emotionally draining and the legal costs keep piling on. Now there’s an important family moment coming up that I really want to be part of (and my parents do too), but I’m being blocked from it for reasons that don’t hold up.

I’ve done a ton of work on myself—therapy, all of it—and I’ve got professional statements saying there’s zero risk or concern. I just want a fair shot to be there for my kids like any parent would.

I’m pushing through the courts to fix this and get more normal time with them, but the lawyer fees are adding up fast. If you’re able to chip in anything—even small—it would help a ton. If not, even sharing this around would mean a lot.

Thanks for reading this. Really appreciate any help or kind words.

Saadyah

Just a dad trying to do right by his kids