This was sudden—leaving his family and me in utter disbelief. John Benson touched so many with his love, patience, understanding, and compassion for those less likely to receive it. His presence brought a sense of peace and comfort, and he blessed so many with his humor, kindness, and genuine heart. The sky exploded into a million stars in celebration the day he arrived into this world. Sadly, on April 18th at 7:40 am, John passed away from a massive heart attack, leaving the physical plane to soar into the cosmos and become one with the universe.

John was Jim (Jimbo) Benson’s baby brother and best friend. He understood Jimbo and loved him dearly, and their bond was unbreakable. John also loved his friends and cared deeply about each of them. In fact, two of his friends performed CPR before the paramedics arrived, showing just how much he was surrounded by love and support in his final moments.

John was incredibly proud of his sons, Jake and Johnny—they were the light in his smile. He would light up talking about them, boasting about Jake’s musical accomplishments and Johnny’s athleticism and sense of adventure. He spoke of his sons with such pride and love, and they brought him immense joy.

A spiritual gangster, John was never judgmental and helped anyone in any way he could. His mother passed away a year and a half ago, which broke his heart—he was devoted and patient, and admired her deeply. He loved to cook, and every meal was made with love and artistry. As a professional tennis player and coach, he inspired and supported many. He lived to play African, Middle Eastern, and bongo drums, and more recently, the hand pan drum. John was a dreamer who beat to his own drum. His humor made difficult moments pass, and his thoughtfulness and patience were beyond normal capacity. He was a beautiful soul who gave so much to others.

John has lost so much, and now the cost of repairs for his home, the probate process, and other life inconveniences have put us into a difficult financial state. Neither I, his brother, nor his two sons have the means to support a funeral or celebration. He is deserving of recognized appreciation, and his sons and brother need to bring his life and name to rest in celebration for how wonderful he was. Any support to help us give John the memorial he deserves would mean the world to his family and me. Thank you for your kindness and generosity during this difficult time.