Hi, my name is Kelley, and I am a proud, hard-working single mom to the most incredible little girl. She is now 5 years old, and she continues to be my world, my light, and my reason for everything I do. Today, I’m reaching out to you again with humility and urgency—because although I’ve recently won a huge legal victory, I find myself facing a whole new set of challenges.

In March 2020, my daughter and I escaped a very abusive situation. If you’ve ever experienced narcissistic abuse, you know how deeply it shatters your sense of safety, self-worth, and stability. I left with barely anything—ten cents to my name and a fierce determination to create a better life for my child.

With the help of kind and generous souls, I moved us to safety. But what followed was four grueling years locked in a high-conflict divorce and custody battle in family court. I never wanted that battle, but I had no choice. Her father used every legal tactic possible to drag out the process—anything to break me down emotionally, mentally, and financially.

But despite the chaos and cruelty, I kept fighting—and I won.

I now have full custody of my daughter.

That is something to celebrate, yes—but it’s also scary and heartbreaking. Because with that “victory” came silence. Her father hasn’t paid a dime of child support since October 2024. And knowing his patterns, I don’t expect that to change. Narcissists never take accountability—instead, he has chosen to blame me for everything, and in doing so, he is now punishing not just me, but our daughter too.

As if that weren’t enough, I also recently lost my job—not because I wasn’t working hard, but because the constant legal proceedings and emotional toll simply wore me down. Court dates pulled me away from work. The stress and exhaustion made it hard to function. I was drained—physically, mentally, and emotionally—and now my bank account reflects that too.

I’m asking for help because rent is due August 1, and I’m scared.

I’ve always done everything in my power to provide for my daughter, but I need help to keep a roof over our heads. I don’t want to damage my relationship with my landlords, and I certainly don’t want to face eviction. The impact of that would be devastating for both of us.

I know how isolating these situations can feel—because narcissistic abuse is designed to make you feel like you’re alone. But I also know better now. I know that there are people out there who care. Who show up for women like me—moms doing everything they can to break cycles and create safe, loving homes.

If you’ve read this far, thank you. I know times are tough for everyone. But if you’re able to donate—even a small amount—or share this with someone who might, it would mean the world to me and my daughter. Every dollar goes directly toward helping us stay afloat during this incredibly fragile time.

Thank you for standing with us,

for believing in our story,

and for helping us step into this new chapter—stronger, safer, and supported.

With love and gratitude,

Kelley