Help Us Start Our Family Through Surrogacy

My wife JH and I have been married for nearly eight years, and our journey to start a family has been filled with challenges. As a military family, even accessing fertility clinics has been a struggle due to frequent moves and limited time between bases. Over the years, we have invested so much—emotionally and financially—into IUI and IVF procedures, but have not found success. We even explored adoption, but the demands of military life made that path nearly impossible. The process has taken a toll on both of us, especially after experiencing the heartbreak of an ectopic pregnancy. It’s been difficult watching my wife carry the weight of this pain, often feeling like it’s her fault, even though I know it isn’t.


Recently, a close friend has offered to help us by becoming our surrogate. This has given us renewed hope, but we now face the significant legal costs required to move forward. The funds we raise will go directly toward the legal contracts for both us and our surrogate, covering all necessary fees, hourly rates, and post-birth legal paperwork. This support will ensure that everything is handled properly and that we can take full ownership of our child or children upon birth.


We are asking for help so that we can finally have the chance to welcome a child into our family. More than anything, I want to see my wife happy and free from the pain and sadness that has weighed on us for so long. Your support will help us take the final steps toward making our dream of becoming parents a reality.