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Help Nelly escape the downward spiral of domestic violence and to obtain legal custody of her children (and...who knows... move back to Canada to be near her family).
Domestic violence destroys the trust, the self esteem and the very own soul of the victim. After a few years, only shreds of what was once a person remain.
Days following delivering her second child, Nelly gathers as quickly as she can a few items and her two children, the second being only a few days old, to leave a relationship that is no longer loving but clearly abusive. The separation takes place under threats, lies, accusations, insults and cruelty. After the first visit, the father hides the oldest away with motorcycle friends and threatens firearm use were Nelly to try and retrieve her. For a period of two weeks, she receives no news of her daughter, from whom she had never been separated before. A lawyer obtains an order. But after her second visit with her father, the oldest reports that she has been touched. More attorney fees. A few weeks later, bystanders report to the local police that they have seen the infant left half naked on the hood of his car for longer than 15 minutes in sub-freezing weather. Again, more attorney fees. Then, court orders him to sign passport paperwork so Nelly and the children can visit her family in Quebec. The father entertains himself by filling it out with false information with each new form; an erroneous name, a false date of birth, mispelled last names; more attorney money.
We are in Alaska; each new step in the process costs thousands. Nelly has reached her end in terms of resources after already having spent $20,000, and each month costing her about $3000 in legal fees as part of the process to set herself and her children free. All the while, the abuse continues with moral and further emotional harassment
Nelly is my sister in law. Through this campaign, our goal is to father up enough money in order for Nelly and her chlldren to be legally protected, and to put an end of the spiral of violence so as to allow her and her children to be in an healthy place.
Thank you for your precious help
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Aidez Nelly à sortir de la spirale de la violence et à obtenir la garde légale de ses enfants ( et qui sait, à retrouver sa famille au Canada).
Aidez Nelly à sortir de la spirale de la violence et à obtenir la garde légale de ses enfants ( et qui sait, à retrouver sa famille au Canada).
"Elle, elle ne dit rien. Elle ne se débat pas. Elle attend que cela se passe. Elle en arrive même à le prendre en pitié. » - Zola, La bête humaine.
La violence amoureuse détruit la confiance, le corps, l’estime de soi. Au bout de quelques années, ce sont des lambeaux d'être qu'il faut recoller.
Au lendemain de l'accouchement de son deuxième enfant, Nelly ramasse quelques affaires en vitesse, sa fille de 3 ans et son enfant naissant de quelques heures, et elle fuit une relation qui ne se construit plus dans l'amour mais dans la violence conjugale. La séparation se fait avec des menaces, des insultes, une toile de mensonge, de la cruauté mentale. Après la première visite, le père cache sa fille de 3 ans chez des amis motards, menaçant d'utiliser les armes si Nelly tente de récupérer sa fille. Pendant 2 semaines, elle n'a aucune nouvelle de sa fille dont elle n'avait jusqu'alors jamais été séparée. Une avocate obtient une ordonnance. Après le deuxième séjour chez leur père, l'aînée de trois ans raconte qu'elle à subi des attouchements. Retour chez l'avocate. Après quelques semaines, des voisins portent plainte contre le père qu'ils ont vu laisser le nouveau-né plusieurs minutes sur le capot de la voiture en plein hiver. Encore l'avocate. La cour a ordonné au père de signer les papiers de passeport du nouveau-né pour que Nelly puisse retrouver sa famille au Québec. Le père s'amuse à rentrer des informations erronées à chaque nouveau formulaire - nom erroné, fausse date de naissance, mauvaise foi.
Nous sommes en Alaska, chaque étape se règle à coup de milliers de dollars. Nelly est à bout. À bout de souffle, à bout de ressources, à bout d'argent. La violence est une spirale. Pour en faire sortir ses enfants, Nelly doit assurer des démarches légales qui lui coûtent plus de 3000 $ US par mois.
Nelly est ma belle-sœur, et au travers de cette campagne, notre objectif est de ramasser assez d'argent pour que Nelly et ses enfants puissent se protéger légalement, et ainsi mettre un terme à la spirale en permettant aux enfants et à la mère d'être dans un environnement sain.
Merci pour votre aide précieuse.
Leila Afriat
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Help Nelly escape the downward spiral of domestic violence and to obtain legal custody of her children (and...who knows... move back to Canada to be near her family).
Domestic violence destroys the trust, the self esteem and the very own soul of the victim. After a few years, only shreds of what was once a person remain.
Days following delivering her second child, Nelly gathers as quickly as she can a few items and her two children, the second being only a few days old, to leave a relationship that is no longer loving but clearly abusive. The separation takes place under threats, lies, accusations, insults and cruelty. After the first visit, the father hides the oldest away with motorcycle friends and threatens firearm use were Nelly to try and retrieve her. For a period of two weeks, she receives no news of her daughter, from whom she had never been separated before. A lawyer obtains an order. But after her second visit with her father, the oldest reports that she has been touched. More attorney fees. A few weeks later, bystanders report to the local police that they have seen the infant left half naked on the hood of his car for longer than 15 minutes in sub-freezing weather. Again, more attorney fees. Then, court orders him to sign passport paperwork so Nelly and the children can visit her family in Quebec. The father entertains himself by filling it out with false information with each new form; an erroneous name, a false date of birth, mispelled last names; more attorney money.
we are in Alaska; each new step in the process costs thousands. Nelly has reached her end in terms of resources after already having spent $20,000, and each month costing her about $3000 in legal fees as part of the process to set herself and her children free. All the while, the abuse continues with moral and further emotional harassment
Nelly is my sister in law. Through this campaign, our goal is to father up enough money in order for Nelly and her chlldren to be legally protected, and to put an end of the spiral of violence so as to allow her and her children to be in an healthy place.
Thank you for your precious help
La violence amoureuse détruit la confiance, le corps, l’estime de soi. Au bout de quelques années, ce sont des lambeaux d'être qu'il faut recoller.
Au lendemain de l'accouchement de son deuxième enfant, Nelly ramasse quelques affaires en vitesse, sa fille de 3 ans et son enfant naissant de quelques heures, et elle fuit une relation qui ne se construit plus dans l'amour mais dans la violence conjugale. La séparation se fait avec des menaces, des insultes, une toile de mensonge, de la cruauté mentale. Après la première visite, le père cache sa fille de 3 ans chez des amis motards, menaçant d'utiliser les armes si Nelly tente de récupérer sa fille. Pendant 2 semaines, elle n'a aucune nouvelle de sa fille dont elle n'avait jusqu'alors jamais été séparée. Une avocate obtient une ordonnance. Après le deuxième séjour chez leur père, l'aînée de trois ans raconte qu'elle à subi des attouchements. Retour chez l'avocate. Après quelques semaines, des voisins portent plainte contre le père qu'ils ont vu laisser le nouveau-né plusieurs minutes sur le capot de la voiture en plein hiver. Encore l'avocate. La cour a ordonné au père de signer les papiers de passeport du nouveau-né pour que Nelly puisse retrouver sa famille au Québec. Le père s'amuse à rentrer des informations erronées à chaque nouveau formulaire - nom erroné, fausse date de naissance, mauvaise foi.
Nous sommes en Alaska, chaque étape se règle à coup de milliers de dollars. Nelly est à bout. À bout de souffle, à bout de ressources, à bout d'argent. La violence est une spirale. Pour en faire sortir ses enfants, Nelly doit assurer des démarches légales qui lui coûtent plus de 3000 $ US par mois.
Nelly est ma belle-sœur, et au travers de cette campagne, notre objectif est de ramasser assez d'argent pour que Nelly et ses enfants puissent se protéger légalement, et ainsi mettre un terme à la spirale en permettant aux enfants et à la mère d'être dans un environnement sain.
Merci pour votre aide précieuse.
Leila Afriat
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Help Nelly escape the downward spiral of domestic violence and to obtain legal custody of her children (and...who knows... move back to Canada to be near her family).
Domestic violence destroys the trust, the self esteem and the very own soul of the victim. After a few years, only shreds of what was once a person remain.
Days following delivering her second child, Nelly gathers as quickly as she can a few items and her two children, the second being only a few days old, to leave a relationship that is no longer loving but clearly abusive. The separation takes place under threats, lies, accusations, insults and cruelty. After the first visit, the father hides the oldest away with motorcycle friends and threatens firearm use were Nelly to try and retrieve her. For a period of two weeks, she receives no news of her daughter, from whom she had never been separated before. A lawyer obtains an order. But after her second visit with her father, the oldest reports that she has been touched. More attorney fees. A few weeks later, bystanders report to the local police that they have seen the infant left half naked on the hood of his car for longer than 15 minutes in sub-freezing weather. Again, more attorney fees. Then, court orders him to sign passport paperwork so Nelly and the children can visit her family in Quebec. The father entertains himself by filling it out with false information with each new form; an erroneous name, a false date of birth, mispelled last names; more attorney money.
we are in Alaska; each new step in the process costs thousands. Nelly has reached her end in terms of resources after already having spent $20,000, and each month costing her about $3000 in legal fees as part of the process to set herself and her children free. All the while, the abuse continues with moral and further emotional harassment
Nelly is my sister in law. Through this campaign, our goal is to father up enough money in order for Nelly and her chlldren to be legally protected, and to put an end of the spiral of violence so as to allow her and her children to be in an healthy place.
Thank you for your precious help