I’m writing this with a heavy heart and open hands.

My dad has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer. We don’t know how much time he has left, but it’s not long.

I’m in Australia, thousands of miles away, and I’m doing everything I can to hold steady as a solo mum, while also feeling a strong need to be in Scotland. To sit beside him. To sing to him. To hear him say whatever is left to say. To say goodbye with love.

I’ve walked through a lot of deep loss these past few years, solo parenting and the passing of my brother during covid. I’ve kept showing up, finding grace and presence with this wild journey of life.

But right now, I need help.

I’m asking for support to get home. To be with my Mum, Sisters and family.

To be with my Dad in his final chapter. To give Finley the chance to see his grandad one last time. To honour this tender time in the most loving way possible: with presence.

If you feel moved to support me, even a small amount, it would mean the world. Every donation will go toward return flights, travel insurance, and essential costs whilst we’re there and loss of earnings.

While it’s hard to predict exactly how long we’ll stay, I expect to be in Scotland for around 8 weeks to be with my dad, support my family, and honour this time with presence and care.

I know times are tough for many, so if all you can offer is a prayer, a share, or a kind thought, I’ll receive it with a full heart.

Thank you for seeing me. For walking this path with me.

Much love,

Madelene