Mari Ruddy has always been a source of inspiration, strength, and joy to those around her. Now, as she faces metastatic breast cancer and has made the difficult decision to stop treatment, her friends and loved ones are rallying to help her fulfill a lifelong dream.
As many of you know, Mari has lived with Type 1 diabetes for 45 years, since she was 16 years old. She was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2004 and underwent a mastectomy in 2010. On June 26th of this year, Mari went in for an ultrasound to check on the cancer nodules on her chest wall where she had the mastectomy and discovered that those nodules are growing again.
In consultation with her doctor, she has learned that she has about 5-6 more months of feeling good and strong in her body. It is likely she has around 2 more years of life. Her focus now is on quality of life, not quantity. She continues to run, bike, swim, and give her time in service to the YWCA Women’s Triathlon.
Mari has always wanted to visit Ireland, a place that holds special meaning for her, and we want to make this dream a reality before she leaves this world. She has always felt drawn to Ireland, connecting with nature, Celtic music, and even learning Irish. She would like to visit Westport, where her ancestral Ruddys are from, and sit in a pub listening to real Celtic music.
The funds raised through this campaign will go directly toward covering Mari and her travel companion’s travel expenses, accommodations, and experiences within Ireland. We also want to ensure she has discretionary funds available to make her trip more pleasant or to handle any emergencies that arise. By supporting this fundraiser, you are helping Mari find comfort, joy, and peace in a time that is both challenging and precious.
Mari has already received a donation of 30,000 Delta Airlines miles. She already had 5,000 miles and a round trip ticket on Delta is about 80,000 miles. Please reach out if you are interested in making a Delta Airline miles donation.
We invite you to join us in making Mari’s dream come true. Your support, whether big or small, will make a meaningful difference in her journey. Thank you for being part of this community and for helping Mari experience the beauty of Ireland and the warmth of your generosity.
If you are unable to contribute financially, Mari wants you to know that your words of support are invaluable to her. Thus, she encouraged the fundraising team to create this form to give people that opportunity. Submit Appreciations
