We are so ready to start our family.  Unfortunately, getting pregnant is not something that comes easily or by accident for us.  Ren's flying status, school schedule, and the looming deployment make it infeasible for her to carry our baby, so Lisa has decided she is ready to do it.  Due to sciencey stuff and circumstances too complicated and personal for this forum, In Vitro Fertilization is our only viable option.  
IVF is very expensive; about $20,000 for two cycles.  We are hoping to raise half the total cost so Ren can use income from her deployment this summer to pay for the other half.  We would be immensely grateful if you are able to help in any way, with whatever amount.  Please feel free to share.