FIGHTING To Bring Kacy Home!

Hello, My Name is Caroline, and I am raising funds for my Family so that it will be possible to hire a Private Investigator or to fund in a smaller source investigation to find my missing older sister Kacy Michelle Ross.

• (6/24 Update: a private investigator has agreed to look into this case and I need to continue the fight to bring Kacy home and I still need help with funding the payment. More updates to come, please share and help me find my big sister)

Due to many years of the pain staking efforts to find my sister I have not been able to find her, spending hours researching Hiring a Privet Investigator. I have found that the price range for these services may range too large for me to raise the funds. 

So my efforts now focus on support to find her on my own with the help from my family and friends.  This money is being held securely for the search for kacy. 

The importance of finding Kacy grows significantly with every passing day. Our Family suffers emotionally, mentally and spiritually without knowing if she is alright, safe or where she is. Asking for help to raise this amount, I wish to have the highest level of service to find Kacy.

I miss my sister significantly, and so do her son and daughter. I know our mother misses her so much that it is painful. I don't want my nephew and niece to grow up without their mother; they have gone too long without her. I don't want to be without my big sister, my best friend; I don't want to see our mother struggle and weep, holding back such painful tears when she says, "I want my baby home Before I die.".

We need to bring her home.

I won't rest until I bring Kacy home...

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I describe my sister Kacy Michelle Ross as kind, beautiful, and full of love and passion. Who Loves her family unconditionally and without boundaries. Her smile brightened up rooms, and laughter was contagious, her heart pure and true. Stood up for what she believed and would always be helpful to anyone in need. Full of creativity and ideas, she took pride in her heritage and wore it gracefully. Never cruel, never envious, and never looked down on anyone. Went to great lengths for her children to give them what they needed and did her best to provide them with almost anything and everything they wanted. She was always there when dark times, but she made them not seem so dark.

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Here is Kacy's Story

Kacy Grew up mainly in Tensed, Idaho and went to high school in Plummer, Idaho. She was a beautiful young woman who loved her friends and family.

She was homecoming royalty, good at sports, did her best in school, and with her hard work and intelligence, she and a few other classmates traveled to Washington D.C.

Kacy loved riding horses and spending time with her family(s). Her Mother and Father were separated, living with her Mother, Step Father and little sister and traveling to visit her Father and other family members. Even though there was that separation, she still had plenty of love to give equally; she always was filled with love.

As Kacy got older, she fell in love with her high school sweetheart, had two beautiful children, had an excellent job, and owned a home in Worley, Idaho. Kacy's home was the beacon of our family's get-togethers. Birthdays, Holidays, etc., were always significant and memorable for many years.

Problems started to happen, and things began to be noticed. Kacy's relationship failed and ended with her heart being wholly shattered. Kacy struggled with her emotions, tearing her apart worse than she could take it. Kacy was given what she thought would be the key and path to help the pain go away by the sibling of the man who delivered the source of her pain but instead was shown a temporary solution. Kacy began her drug addiction to try and kill the emotional pain she couldn't bare from the heartless infidelity and betrayal in her relationship.

Kacy eventually lost her job, The custody of her children, then lost her home... Kacy lost herself, and she hated herself for what she had become. Kacy then began to spend her time going from one couch to another, keeping within Plummer, Desmet, Worley and Coeur d' Alene; while now addicted to drugs. Kacy struggled to keep herself together, but the drug addiction kept the pain away, and she didn't want to feel it.

After some time, Kacy began to realize exactly how badly her actions and choices were affecting the people she loved, so she stopped communicating with everyone and stopped coming around. Kacy did this to all but one, I, Her little sister.

I Expressed to Kacy that I had been angry with her in the beginning. It soon became sadness, then transformed into not just sorrow but understanding that she was in pain, and I understood how much Kacy's heart hurt.

I still loved her more than anything in the world, and no matter what Kacy did, would or had done, it could never make me see Kacy any differently.

Kacy was still my big sister, and I truly loved her. I told Kacy I only wanted and requested her to promise: never to lie, always to be honest and tell the truth no matter what it was because I could handle it.

I asked Kacy to promise to check in and always tell me that she was safe and at least know what her general location was. My last request was to be still able to see Kacy and to let me know if she needed food, clothes or anything, and I refused to give cash or supply her addiction.

Kacy promised and kept her word. Kacy and I kept in contact and made plans to visit a few times. I helped Kacy when she needed it.

On August 10th, 2019, when we spent time together and visited. While we spent time together, Kacy Broke down in my car, crying. When Kacy spoke, she said she was sick of being a drug addict, tired of how it made her feel; Kacy was tired of feeling ill and wanted to come home. Kacy finally could think clearly and said she knew how hard it would be, but she wanted to go home to her family.

One day when Kacy did not reply for days, I panicked and made a missing person report. Kacy got back in touch after 45 days. Kacy was okay and was sorry for being away with no contact but said news or talk of her shouldn't happen again because she didn't want certain people to know her location. I said I wouldn't so that so I could keep Kacy safe.

Contact was maintained, and Kacy last informed me that she was in Spokane, where Kacy spent most of her time. Kacy was actively doing what she could to get herself together, and she was slowly making progress in getting clean from the poisons of her addiction. Kacy was on a waitlist for housing and inpatient treatment; she was actively doing whatever was needed for her to come home, she was struggling to make ends meet, but it wasn't stopping her.

Kacy and I's last Conversation was on March 19, 2020; Kacy hasn't been heard from again since then.

There have been rumors that have not been very positive, and there still has been no factual information about Kacy and her whereabouts. As her sibling and everything I have been through with Kacy, knowledge and my constant investigating. I know that Kacy would never leave without giving me peace of mind.

I believe, with my information and Knowledge, that Kacy has been forced to lose contact and is in a place where she cannot escape. Someone is keeping her from me, leaving that life; Kacy wanted to come home.

It is highly possible Kacy is being held against her will and, that she is injured, that she is incapable of contacting anyone. In theory, she may have been trafficked, or her life has been cut short. There are many individuals whom I suspect to be the key in Kacy's Disappearance, and I have yet to find out names or dig up more clues, but what I have as of now is just on hearsay until I can find it indefinitely.

All of the Correct procedures have been met before it has led me to this point.

Coeur D' Alene Tribal Police have been on the case with no word yet, The FBI has been contacted, and expression has been that there will likely be no investigation. MMIW (Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women) have let out a hand in this by getting all correct information out and shared throughout social media.

I Refuse to Believe that she is doing this herself, and I Refuse to Give Up.

Her Son and Daughter need their mother, My Mother Needs her Daughter, and I need My Sister and Bestfriend... WE NEED HER HOME.

Please help me find my sister.

If I can successfully find my sister with my nonstop investigating before I can raise the money to find her and I will be using whatever money raised for Kacy’s recovery and her health so that she can get the proper help she needs. 

 

I will not let her do it alone. She needs me and she needs all the help she can get and all the love and support possible.