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Help Aaron Reunite with Kai and Reclaim Stability

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Hello, my name is Aaron, and I’m reaching out during the most challenging time of my life. Unfortunately, I am currently facing an overwhelming legal and financial battle that threatens my ability to see my son, Kai, and maintain the stability that we both deserve. Every child deserves the love and support of both parents, and I’m determined to fight for Kai’s right to have his father in his life.

Why I Need Your Help
Recently, my relationship with Kai’s mother has taken a difficult turn and I’ve been navigating a deeply painful legal situation that has escalated with time-sensitive threats, including an eviction notice. These challenges are compounded by misleading claims that have resulted in a restraining order, preventing me from spending time with Kai, my 2 year old son. Since the implementation of an agreeable care schedule, Kais mother sought to reduce my time with Kai. Other certain decisions and changes that Kais mother had imposed created additional challenges for me as a father. When expressing the desire to return to a 50/50 model of care I was met with threats of police involvement and child protective services if I did not meet the scheduling plan that she demanded. When I showed that her threats did not intimidate me and suggested we go through mediation, she responded by filing a protection order based on claims that are unfounded and harmful. She took %100 control of our child and striped Kai of his dad and me of my son. In response to my obtaining legal support she served me with an eviction notice that is time sensitive in order to add financial pressure.

The Emotional Toll
The hardest part of this nightmare has been the impact on Kai. Kai’s mother and I still live under the same roof, I have just isolated myself in the separate suite of the home where I operate my business. I can hear Kai calling for me from the other side of a door that I’m legally unable to open. His words have shifted from “Dada, Dada” to “What is Dada doing?” and now to “There is no Dada here.” The thought that she might be telling him that I am not here and that he may feel rejected by me or believe I’ve abandoned him is devastating to me. I am here and Im fighting every day to stay in his life.

What’s at Stake
If I cannot raise the funds to address these legal challenges:
* I risk being evicted, leaving me homeless and unable to maintain my massage therapy practice, which is my sole source of income.
* The restraining order will remain in place and I will continue to be restricted from seeing Kai, further damaging our bond.
* The emotional toll on both Kai and myself will continue to grow, affecting his sense of self worth, believing that he was abandoned by his father.
* My ability to secure a safe and stable home for Kai and myself will be jeopardized.

Kai deserves both parents in his life, and I am fighting to ensure he knows his father is here for him.

My Goals
Your support will help me:
1. Take immediate legal action to dismiss the restraining order and restore my parenting time with Kai.
2. Counter the eviction notice and maintain a place to live and work.
3. Pursue a fair division of equity in our home to secure a stable future for Kai and me.

A Positive Focus
This fight is not just about legalities—it’s about Kai’s right to have both parents in his life. I’m deeply committed to his well-being and ensuring he grows up feeling loved and supported. I’m determined to give him the love, security, and support he deserves. No parent should be robbed of their role in their child’s life, and no child should be made to feel that they have been abandoned.

How You Can Help
Any contribution, big or small, will make a difference in this fight for justice, stability, and fatherhood. If you’re unable to donate, sharing this campaign with your network is equally valuable and deeply appreciated.
Together, we can ensure that Kai has his father in his life and that I have the chance to rebuild for our future. Thank you for taking the time to read my story and for standing with me during this difficult time.

With gratitude,
Aaron

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    Aaron Miller
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    Qualicum Beach, BC

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