I never imagined I would be asking for help like this, but I’m at a point where honesty matters more than pride.

I am a survivor of abuse by someone who was in a position of authority over me and should have known better. The abuse involved grooming and exploitation, and the impact did not end when the relationship ended. It has continued through years of emotional, legal, and psychological stress that I am still navigating today.

When I spoke up, the systems meant to protect people failed to provide real safety or closure. Instead, the situation has remained unresolved, and the ongoing pressure has made it increasingly difficult to function, work, rest, and heal while also parenting and staying present for my children.

Over the years, I have already paid tens of thousands of dollars out of pocket for legal fees, therapy, and related costs simply to survive, protect my family, and advocate for myself. Despite doing everything I can to handle this responsibly and privately, the financial and emotional burden has continued.

This fundraiser is not about revenge, blame, or public exposure.

It is about stability, survival, and support while I continue to navigate an ongoing situation that has taken a serious toll on my life.

I am asking for help to:

Cover ongoing legal and administrative costs

Continue trauma-informed therapy

Maintain basic stability while rebuilding a sense of safety and control

Asking for help is not my first step — it is the result of years of trying to manage this on my own. My priority is remaining present and grounded for my children while continuing to heal.

For my safety and well-being, I won’t be sharing identifying details publicly. If you’re able to help financially, I am deeply grateful. If you’re not, sharing this or offering quiet support still means more than you know.

Thank you for believing that people deserve support when power is abused and the system falls short.