I am a licensed clinical psychologist supporting one of my clients with their full permission. My client asked for my help with raising funds, as they desire to remain anonymous, and they have been struggling for years due to persistent depressive disorder and various physical health conditions. Here is their story in their own words:
I Am Disabled & In Need Of Help
I'm 60 years old and I have diabetes, arthritis, asthma, hypertension, partial blindness, heart disease, and I also struggle with persistent severe depression. I went on Social Security Disability when it got to the point where I didn't want to live anymore, but because I am not yet at retirement age, the money was so low that I fell into deep debt and had to start working part-time just to stay alive. I have been working since I was 12 years old, and every job has been in the social service sector, helping to support and heal others. I may also soon have to stop working because my car requires approximately $3,000 worth of repairs that I can't afford, and I am unable to commute to my job site by bus, as I work nights. I work nights because it's easier on my psyche working alone, and fewer people see me limping along & having to stop every 15 feet to fight for breath or see me using my cane or walker to get around.
I have never married or had children because my depression is so bad that I never wanted to saddle anyone with someone who didn't know how to give love, because I have never had it myself. I have always lived alone and taken care of myself; my independence has always been the one thing I am fiercely proud of. But now, as my health has worsened and I have no family to turn to, I can't keep up my living environment, and seeing the clutter and squalor just makes my depression worse. Plus, I'm terrified that if anyone knew how bad it is, someone would conclude that I can't take care of myself and have me put away, which, for an introvert like me, would almost be worse than death. It's very hard for me to ask for help, but I admit that I need some.
If I could just get a deep cleaning for my home once, I think I would be able to maintain it afterwards, even with my health, vision, and mobility challenges. I also need financial assistance to repair my car, cover a few outstanding medical bills, and hire an organizer to help organize my space so it's livable.
If it is within your power and your heart to assist me, I would be deeply grateful. I appreciate you taking the time to read this and wish you peace and blessings in your life. Truly, thank you.
Organizer
Abena Berry
Organizer
Hoffman Estates, IL