Help a Medical Student Secure His Son's Future

I am a full-time medical student and single father, navigating the challenges of parenting, school, and an ongoing custody case. My financial resources are extremely limited, as I rely on student loans intended for living expenses—not legal fees. Despite these obstacles, I remain unwavering in my commitment to ensuring my son’s best interests are represented and that his future is secure.

This custody case has been one of the most difficult and costly experiences of my life. To ensure my son’s well-being, I’ve already invested over $25,000 in legal costs—resources that were meant to sustain my family’s basic needs. I’ve delayed my medical school graduation by a year to focus on this fight and have sacrificed professional opportunities to be fully present for my son during this challenging time. My son and I live in a small one-bedroom apartment, and while I stretch every dollar, I simply cannot afford to continue this battle without help.

As a father, I know firsthand how gender biases can sometimes influence custody disputes. Fathers often face stereotypes that unfairly diminish their role in their children’s lives, and it is critical to ensure decisions are made equitably, based on facts and the child’s welfare—not assumptions. My goal is to advocate for my son in a way that highlights fairness and holds both parents accountable to the highest standards of care.

I am deeply committed to ensuring my son grows up in a world where he is taken seriously as an individual—not stereotyped based on his sex. This means creating an environment that values his voice, supports his emotional development, and promotes equality in all aspects of his life. I want to show my son that fairness, resilience, and compassion are values worth fighting for, even in the face of difficult circumstances.

This campaign is not about gaining an advantage over anyone; it is about securing the resources needed to advocate for my son’s best interests. Contributions will go toward essential legal costs, including a Guardian ad Litem, and tools like psychological evaluations to ensure decisions are made in an unbiased and informed manner. Without these resources, my ability to advocate for my son will be severely limited.

I am incredibly grateful for any support, no matter how small. Your contributions will not only help me continue this fight for my son but also allow me to focus on my future as a pediatrician—dedicated to advocating for children and families facing challenges like ours. Together, we can make a difference in my son’s life and set an example for a better, fairer future.