Support for Closing a 7-Year Custody Journey

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Support for Closing a 7-Year Custody Journey

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Hi, my name is Sarah, and I’m opening my heart to ask for support as I enter the final leg of a 7-year-long custody battle for my son.


I’m a mother to the most incredible 8-year-old boy — bright, funny, cuddly, and wise beyond his years. He’s my greatest joy and deepest motivation. For years, I’ve been fighting for something simple and fair: 50/50 custody. Equal time. A balanced, loving life for my child.

This journey has tested me — emotionally, financially, and spiritually.

Why I’m Reaching Out Now

The final stages of this process are here. I have an arbitration hearing set for September, and I need to raise $14,000 to cover legal fees, mediation costs, and final preparations. This will allow me to bring forward my case with clarity, strength, and integrity — not just for me, but for my son.

Asking for help in this way is vulnerable. But it’s not rooted in shame, it’s rooted in open and honest truth.

I’ve faced:
• The collapse of my small business due to significant financial hardship during the pandemic
• Periods of housing insecurity where I had to rely on family to stay afloat
• A high-conflict relationship that left me emotionally and financially depleted
• In 2021, I experienced a significant mental health challenge. During this time, custody shifted, and I’ve spent the past few years focusing on my healing, growth, and rebuilding stability for myself and my son.
• A prolonged, painful, and deeply unjust family court process that continues to drain my resources and delay resolution

Despite it all, I’ve shown up. I’ve rebuilt. I’ve parented with calm and patience and love. I’ve prayed. I’ve stayed the course. But I can’t finish this alone.

This Is a Call for Support

Not just financial support, but emotional and spiritual support too.

I believe in community. I believe in the power of being held when we are tired. I believe in cycles of giving and receiving — and I’ve come to understand that receiving is just as sacred as giving.

Whether you can contribute financially or simply share this with someone who might be moved to help, I receive it all with gratitude.

And if you’ve ever gone through something like this — and come out the other side — I honour you. Your support means more than I can express

A New Chapter

I’ve let go of what no longer serves me and now, I’m stepping into this next chapter with openness, humility, and hope.

I’ve been quietly creating a peaceful, stable life for my child. And I’m ready to let this final part of the battle be supported — not just carried alone.

Thank you for being part of this moment. Thank you for holding space for me. Thank you for believing in mothers like me who just want what’s right.

With love and deep gratitude,
Sarah

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Sarah Devika
Organizer
Toronto, ON
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