The unexpected and devastating loss that has shaken my family and so many others has left a hole in our hearts.

Hi, I’m Dev. I’m reaching out to share something incredibly painful: my grandparents, Bob and Bernie, have lost their beloved home of over 50 years to the devastating Eaton Fires in California. This wasn’t just a house. It was a sanctuary—filled with warmth, love, and an unspoken promise of comfort to everyone who walked through its doors. The phrase, “Mi casa es tu casa,” truly lived here. My grandparents opened their home to anyone in need, offering a place to unwind, recharge, and feel part of something special. Their home was rich with memories, filled with family history and cherished memorabilia. It’s where I grew up, where I celebrated my milestones, and where I hold the earliest memories of my life. I remember climbing the tree in front of their house as a kid, feeling on top of the world, just like the way their home always made me feel—safe, loved, and full of possibilities. Even the newborn photos of myself were once nestled within those walls.

Our family spent every holiday there—gathering around the fireplace, laughing, opening presents, and creating memories that now feel even more precious. We were lucky enough to spend one last Christmas there, and I’m so thankful for that. Those moments will forever be etched in my heart.

Bob and Bernie are two of the most selfless, hardworking, and compassionate people you could ever meet. They’ve given so much—not only to our family, but to everyone around them, and to their community. Grandma, in particular, became everyone's “mom” or “grandma”—a true matriarch who always made room at the table and opened her heart to those in need, no matter how big or small. She’s one of those rare souls who makes you feel seen, heard, and loved, no matter what. Grandpa, with his quiet strength and unwavering dedication, always worked tirelessly to make sure everyone around him had what they needed. Together, they’ve built a legacy of love, kindness, and generosity.

Now, Bob and Bernie are in a time of need themselves, and I’m asking for help. In whatever way you can, I’d be beyond grateful if you could extend a hand to them. They’ve given so much to others, and now it’s our turn to give back.

This world is undeniably a better place because these two exist. If I could give them the world, I would without hesitation. And I’m hoping, together, we can make a difference in their lives during this unimaginably difficult time.

Below, I've shared some cherished photos:

Bernie (left) and Bob (right).

Standing in front of their gorgeous home.

What their home has always looked like.

Result of Eaton Fires.

A photo of grandma I captured on film as she sewed away.

Family Christmas.

I just adore this woman.