Donate to Ariel's Family for Stability and Care

I am stubborn, independent, and a perfectionist, so this is one of the hardest posts I’ve ever written. I’ve been trying to do it alone, but I must admit I need help.

Some of you know my Dad moved to an assisted living facility in Matawan back in August. Since then, I’ve been selling whatever I can to pay the bills at the 3-bedroom apartment we have lived in since 2002.

I haven’t expressed how hard it has been, emotionally. I hate having to sell the life my parents made and all their prized possessions. There’s still so much to sell, to downsize, and eventually start my household.

My sister also lives here, but she’s struggling with physical and emotional disabilities (and I believe drug/alcohol use issues, but she denies it). She has no income because her Social Security Disability claim requires an appeal to a federal court. Getting her case before a judge could take up to 2 years and then the ruling comes maybe 6 months later.

We’ve been having a lot of arguments. There’s nothing she can do, but it’s frustrating that I have to pay all the bills.

I found a job after months of searching. It’s only temporary, but it could go long-term. I want to show them I can do the job and do it well.

Today was my third day and my car wouldn’t start this morning. I’m grateful to AAA and my mechanic for towing it (in the rain) and fixing it quickly. But, I missed work and it’s going to cost over $400.

The stress is getting to me. I have always ground my teeth during stressful times, but this is beyond what I’ve experienced. As a result, I managed to break part of my tooth and I need to get a crown. On two other teeth, I just cracked the fillings and they also need replacement.

It hurts me to ask for help, but I’m begging anyone who can to donate. If you can’t give monetary help, please share this plea.

Every dollar will go towards my car expenses, dental bills, the household bills for my sister and me, and getting my Dad the best care. Also, spoiling the pictured cats and Dad would be extremely grateful if he could get some food delivered too!

Many people I know are suffering financially, so it pains me even more to ask for money. I want to keep this apartment as long as possible, and I’m trying to minimize what I need.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for any help—whether it’s a donation, a share, or just a kind word. Or go to my Etsy page and buy something I’ve made!

I appreciate you more than I can express.

All my thanks and gratitude,

Ariel