From 17 Years of Marriage to Starting Over Alone – I Need Help Surviving

Story:

I never thought I would be here, asking for help like this—but right now, I truly have no other choice.

After 17 years of marriage, my entire life fell apart in just a few days. Three days after I did everything I could to stop us from being evicted, my husband told me he wanted a divorce. That same week, I found out something even more painful—that he never truly loved me or wanted the life we had.

In a matter of moments, I lost my home, my stability, and the only life I had known for nearly two decades.

Now, I am completely alone.

I have no family to turn to, and because of my serious medical conditions, shelters will not accept me. I am a cervical cancer survivor who has not been able to receive follow-up care in years. I suffer from asthma and COPD and require oxygen full-time. I am also diabetic and homebound, which makes everyday life extremely difficult.

I tried to apply for SSI, but I was denied. I didn’t have enough work credits, and I was also denied because of my husband’s income—even though I am now being left with nothing.

Due to ongoing issues in the past, including paperwork that was never properly provided, we lost our Section 8 housing. That safety net is gone, and I now have nowhere stable to go.

At this point, my only option may be a nursing home—but I would be entering with nothing.

I am asking for help with the most basic necessities:• Shampoo & conditioner• Comfortable night clothes• Shoes• Personal hygiene items• Small comforts like puzzle books or candy to help pass the long days

These may seem like small things, but to me, they mean dignity, comfort, and the ability to get through each day.

I am trying to stay strong, but this has been devastating—physically, emotionally, and mentally. I am doing everything I can to keep going, but I cannot do this alone.

If you are able to donate, even a small amount, it would truly help me survive this moment in my life. And if you cannot donate, please consider sharing my story—it could reach someone who can help.

Thank you for reading, for caring, and for giving me a chance to rebuild.

With all my heart,