Adding another update to our progress with the decisions that are being made with regards to our go fund you account. Moving to Delaware has been quite the blessing for Sean and me. We both lost a substantial amount of weight and are probably in the best shape we’ve been in a long time. I recently visited another fertility doctor in hopes that maybe we can revisit the IVF process one last time since the weight loss. I will be going for some extensive testing here in the next few months to see if they can possibly find a reason for my infertility. While the doctor thinks that IVF is a good start after the testing because he said I responded very well to the other rounds of IVF we did. He said that the medications that I was taking is now very outdated and the protocol now is much different. Although IVF is not guaranteed I really would love to try one last time. I feel like 2016 is our year. Our 10 year wedding anniversary is this year and it would be wonderful to bring a baby Feck into the world as well.
Any amount helps and no donations are too small. And thank you to all who have already donated.
Our journey is below.
As people are fully aware IVF is an extremely expensive process, we are hoping that with a little bit of extra help/support people will be able to help donate a small amount and help us to raise the extra money to fund us to have a family that we have been dreaming about for the past 10 years.
When we first went to a fertility doctor and after all these extensive test they told me I have unexplained infertility. So there is no known reason why I can't get pregnant. After multiple rounds of fertility medications and IUI's we decided to try IVF.
In 2010 I went through my first round of IVF and the long dreaded 2 week wait to find out if it worked and we were pregnant. We were so excited to find out that we were pregnant on the first time. I was in my great glory we were going to be parents. On our 3 month check up the doctors didn't see a heartbeat. I was devastated and the doctor was very cold hearted like this happens all the time but no not me this was my dream to become a mother and I wanted a second opinion, I didn't want to believe it. I went back to my fertility doctor and they confirmed what I didn't want to believe. The baby had no heartbeat. I was deviated to say the least. I still cry to this day when talking/talking about it.
We waited a while before trying IVF again, in 2011 we decided to try again and while this worked the first time we for sure thought that it was going to work again. After the long 2 week wait they called and told us that it didn't work. Again my live time dream of becoming a mother was crushed.
At first it was very difficult to even consider doing this page, it is obviously a very personal and difficult situation, but a lot of people who know our situation and know us as a couple suggested it would be a good idea...so here goes :) We hope to have your support!
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