
family in need of community support
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The Cook family needs community help and support could you help them?
Why are we asking for your help?
We have moved home to be closer to family and support, but now we have hit a brick wall setting up our family home due to being hit by a double whammy first we were hit by bed bugs and now we are being hit due to universal credit cuts and cuts to my husband's benefits due to no longer receiving DLA or carers which I am fighting the system for meaning that now it's 10x harder to survive let alone live I don't know why the government think that we can live like this and survive I don't understand
I am a carer for my husband and daughter we live on a low income we are a family of 3 with additional needs that have been hit with bed bugs. Due to the treatments, we have had to get rid of most of our soft furnishings THANKS TO YOUR SUPPORT WE ARE BED BUG-FREE :)
The Cook family needs community help and support could you help them?
Why are we asking for your help?
We have moved home to be closer to family and support, but now we have hit a brick wall setting up our family home due to being hit by a double whammy first we were hit by bed bugs and now we are being hit due to universal credit cuts and cuts to my husband's benefits due to no longer receiving DLA or carers which I am fighting the system for meaning that now it's 10x harder to survive let alone live I don't know why the government think that we can live like this and survive I don't understand
I am a carer for my husband and daughter we live on a low income we are a family of 3 with additional needs that have been hit with bed bugs. Due to the treatments, we have had to get rid of most of our soft furnishings THANKS TO YOUR SUPPORT WE ARE BED BUG-FREE :)
Due to this it has had a really bad impact on our daughter and has caused her to have a medical condition called chronic urticaria, which causes her blood vessels to burst to cause swelling and a rash this rash is very itchy she spends most of her day scratching no matter where she is and she is now under Evelina hospital for treatment for this Due to her medical condition she can NO longer have dairy in her diet this is a massive cost to us and takes a massive chunk out of our income to feed her the special diet that she needs a nice bedroom to recover from this. Due to lack of funds and as we have already replaced essential furnishings and paying for treatments for bed bugs and may still need further treatments, we now have depleted the little rainy day fund that we managed to save and we could use a helping hand to get back to an acceptable standard of living the help we would be so grateful to receive with any of the following needs this will help us massively with our mental health / well being and to improve our parenting for our primary school-aged daughter she will also have a better quality of life after these improvements have been made.
my husband has 2 shadows on his brain and grand mal epilepsy which causes him to have fits which makes him physically drained and as we don't have any flooring he is hurting himself every day when he has a seizure he also has learning difficulties and severe mental health which leads to daily difficulties with his worrying and stress about our situation has a bad impact to his seizures it makes them more frequent.
If you cannot donate but wish to help we are looking for local builders and carpenters that could help us with time/supplies for flooring please get in contact if u can help with this I can feed/do your washing in exchange for your time and help if u wish to send items as donations then also please get in contact with us.
We are on the waiting list for social services but due to the pandemic every waiting list is long we have reached out to lots of charities and asked for help us but they have depleted their help fund pot during the pandemic, If you know me and my family this is the last thing I would be doing to ask for help but we are in dire need of help we look on free sites/apps daily, all benefits have been applied for that we are entitled to.
If I donate what is my money going to buy?
Flooring throughout our home is our last goal for our home
The front room floor is 18ft long and 10 ft wide
From the stairs to the front room window is 23ft long and 3cm wide
the kitchen floor is width 16ft
Stairs to a hallway going downstairs is 28ft down
downstairs hallway 200cm wide
our bedroom floor is 16ft long and 9ft wide
our daughter's room floor is 480cm long and 101cm wide
toilet floor 5ft long and 70cm wide
bath floor 4ft wide 160cm long
fire escape 10ft
room next to toilet 4ft long and 80cm wide
Christmas presents for our daughter it is with a heavy heart to say we can not afford Christmas this year due to our benefits being cut so much,
even if you could donate to buy 1 Christmas present for our 7-year-old daughter we would be very grateful I have put her wish list below https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/3D64MJZ80XI0U?ref_=wl_share
where needs wallpaper and paint?
our daughter's room is NOW COMPLETED THANK YOU
wallpaper an L shape wall and paint the other walls and skirtings and ceiling
Our room - NOW ARCHIVED THANK YOU
paint 2 walls and ceiling and skirtings
NOW ACHIEVED THANK YOU
hallway near bedrooms/fire escape wallpaper 3 walls and paint 2 ceilings and skirtings
stairs leading back upstairs wallpaper 4 walls paint/replace some skirtings and fix a water damaged wall it needs re-skimming due from our bath which was leaking now it's fixed and paint the ceiling all the way upstairs
bathroom paint the ceiling replace skirtings
toilet paint the ceiling and skirtings and walls
front room
paint the ceiling also paint 2 walls replace the skirtings
entrance to our home wallpaper 3 walls paint skirtings and ceiling
60cm cooker - NOW COMPLETED THANK YOU
chest of draws - NOW COMPLETED THANK YOU
blinds/curtains for all rooms 'are 10ft wide for every room apart from the kitchen which is 5ft wide plus 4ft wide please see above - NOW ARCHIVED THANK YOU
blinds/curtains for all rooms 'are 10ft wide for every room apart from the kitchen which is 5ft wide plus 4ft wide please see above - NOW ARCHIVED THANK YOU
*All funds needed as soon as it can be raised *
we do have a wedding dress size 16 for sale to go towards this it can be found on shpock link below.
https://www.shpock.com/en-gb/i/YT39vkx4OxvWdiCM/wedding-dress-size-16?utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=web_item_share&utm_source=link
Thank you for taking time out of your day to read this :)
we do have a wedding dress size 16 for sale to go towards this it can be found on shpock link below.
https://www.shpock.com/en-gb/i/YT39vkx4OxvWdiCM/wedding-dress-size-16?utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=web_item_share&utm_source=link
Thank you for taking time out of your day to read this :)
Organizer
Amy Cook
Organizer
England