April's Journey: From Injustice to Independence

A little over a year ago, I left a very difficult situation and started living independently. The last year and a half have been quite the roller coaster, but I'm finding myself in a desperate situation that I just need to get out of but can't seem to do on my own. Due to circumstances outside of my control, I am required to pay monthly child support. I have joint custody of my son and he lives with me part of the time. With rent taking over half a month's pay right now and other basic living expenses, things are extremely tight. I spoke with a lawyer a few months ago that said the child support situation I'm in is unjust and that I should work to get that changed, but I don't have the means to hire a lawyer to do that right now. I was also recently diagnosed with PTSD with panic attacks and need therapy and other interventions that I don't have the means for right now, either, due to high insurance deductibles. Opening another line of credit is not an option. I have decided to put grad school on hold for a while to get back on my feet. I will continue to teach at my amazing school next school year and beyond. As a teacher, I make too much to qualify for any government or grant assistance. I'm planning to work this summer while school is out, but in the meantime I really need some help.

My story is messy. I've definitely made mistakes. I've made choices I should not have made. I'm trying to learn from them and move forward but I just seem to keep spinning my wheels, not truly moving forward at all. I'll admit, asking for help is hard. Being vulnerable is scary. But not being able to meet basic needs and financially care for my son is even harder and scarier. So, I'm taking this leap and putting my story out there. Any donations will go to food, gas, bills, and things my son needs.

I absolutely realize that things are hard for most people right now. Even if you can't help monetarily, if you are a person that prays or sends good vibes, I would deeply appreciate that. Thank you for reading.