Aid the Nox-Solaris Family in Their Relocation to Safety

Any donations beyond what we need for our relocation will be donated to organizations supporting the relocation of trans people and families.

Hello you wonderful people,

We are the Nox-Solaris family; Aurelia, Kaylen, Viktor, and Natalia, and our cat Conan. We need to relocation to a safer state to live free from various attacks on our family ranging from family violence to state-legislated discrimination. My relatives are very mentally abusive and my father, who owns the house we live in, has been physically abusive. They have attempted to have our kids taken from us. They once tried to get my mom to go along with them, but she refused and has been threatened by her brother a few times since for protecting us from them. We've also had to deal with detailed death threats from some unknown person(s). On top of all that, South Carolina has consistently proven itself to be intolerant of people like the members of our family. Aurelia is a disabled neurodivergent non-binary black person, I'm a neurodivergent trans woman, Viktor is a caring brother and solid ally, Natalia is a gender nonconforming kiddo. On June 24th, 2025, the Columbia City Council voted 4-3 in favor of repealing Ordinance 2021-021, the city's conversion "therapy" ban. This was only in consideration due to SC's Attorney General Alan Wilson's extortion of the city by threatening to withhold millions of dollars of funding for the city's services. This ban puts many lgbt+ youth at risk and is a continuation of the attack on minorities that SC has participated in further back than their placement of a flag of traitors on top of the state house in response to the civil rights movement and as recent as Governor Henry McMaster signing H.4624 into law barring poor and disabled trans people from gender affirming healthcare which cis gender people can still access. We haven't been safe here for a long time, but it is blatantly obvious that attacks on our communities will only continue to increase in brutality. This along with being surrounded by relatives that publicly act as though family is important while abusing those that don't follow their commands has made this move unavoidable.

Our donation goal will allow us to pay for a PODS unit to move and store our things, find and secure housing, and making the move as gentle a process for our kids and Conan as we can. We know there are a lot of people needing help and aren't expecting to meet goal. Any donations at all are welcome and every bit helps. We are trying to sell our van since we can't take it with us. If this GoFundMe reaches $5000 before the van is sold we will donate the van, to the Harriet Hancock Center or a foodbank and community outreach center, to help another family.

Our little family greatly thanks every single one of you that donates and those that share the link.