Adam and Ewa’s lifejourney!

Hey people all over the world!

I’m Ewa, a single mom to 14 year old Adam (soon to be 15).

My life ( and Adam’s) has been drowned in misfortune and bad luck for many years now.

My bad luck that keeps coming myway, rubs off on my darling son.

How am i going to be able to show him that this world is a GOOD place, when i keep dumping into people’s non understandable ways?

Let me explain..

It goes way back, so please be patient with me.

After living and working outside of Sweden for years, i had to return home. That was in 2004. I barely had time to enter my hometown until all bad thing started hitting me like a punch in my face.

2004, my aunt got diagnosed with cancer.

She put up a huge fight, but the evilness of cancer prevailed and in 2005, we lost her.

2006, my mom was severely beaten and thrown into the canal, left to die.

She survived for 10 days, after that i had to make the desition to turn off her life support. She died 2 hours later..

2007, The person that always had been closest to me, my grandmother, lost the fight against pneumonia.

2008, i went to a chiropractor and he dislocated/ broke 2 discs in my lower back. I was immobile for months and could not work. The problems are STILL very much here today.

2009, My father stepped into his car on his way from a kids bday party. In the car his aorta bursted and he died before the ambulance even got there.

I never got to say Goodbye to any of my parents before they passed away!

2010, I was admitted to the hospital to have my son. Due to his heart slowing down, i had an emergency C-section.

Because of the stress on my son and me loosing too much blood, they almost lost us both.

Luckily we survived.

Same year i went to the physical therapist and she dislocated/ broke another disc in my back. Sick leave again and could not even lift my newborn baby.

2011, almost turned blind when the pressure in my eye went through the roof.

When they checked, both my eyes had to have surgery. Had emergency laser eye surgery.

2012, lost my contract at my work because of falsely given information by the person i had employed. I was on maternity leave and lost my only means of income.

Same year, around the same time, me and my ex moved away from eachother.

2013, because of earlier tax debts, the state took my apartment and sold it.

Homeless with nowhere to move, i had to move back in with my ex husband.

Lost the lease on my business place, because the owner was NOT the owner of the place. And when the REAL owner found out, they asked me to move.

Had to move everything out and work from home.

2014, got divorced and was trying to get back on my feet. Alone with my son since he was born. Tried to get clients to get a normal income. Worked as a massagetherapist since 2001.

2015, Lost an important job contract with a big sports club. That due to unethical behavior. Was orally promised a new contract, but they went behind my back and signed someone else.

I had to read about it in the local paper!

2016, working to get back in my feet. Trying so hard to stay positive and not drown in my own thoughts.

2017, working day and night for me and my son. Feelings of depression, but i would never give up!

2018, almost loosing my appartement due to bad economy. The struggle for everyday’s survival is hard.

My son is having problems in school.

I have no money and the church steps in to help with existential things as food and sometimes clothes for my son.

2019, loose my best friend. Work is hard, but i keep pushing forward!

2020, i turn 50. Take my drivers license, celebrate the other part of life, a young boy crashes my new (used) car and the insurance company scraps it.

Buys a trip for my birthday giftcards, first vacation in 7 years. Falls down a flight of stairs and breaks my wrist.

My job is working as a massagetherapist, so i have to go in sick leave.

Removes the cast in the middle of December. Hopeful!

2021, January.. Helping a friend to move some things, she pushes an object towards my feet and legs, tries to step away but there is no space, falls back and breaks the fall with my already broken wrist, breaks it again in 3 new places.

Sickleave again. This time with brutal pains. Not the same as the time before.

2022, still bad pains from my wrist. It’s not healing good. They take tests, calcium levels are really bad.

Emergency surgery of my thyroid glands.

Lost my job because of the long sick leave.

Got hit from behind with the new (used) car. The insurance company scraps this car as well.

Got severe Covid that went down in my

lungs. Had a hard time recovering.

2023, Still have really bad pains from my wrist. New check up from a specialist doctor, shows a nerve damage.

Surgery is scheduled.

My son is at a friends place and their mom hits him with their car. He is alive, but in bad pain. Since the mother is an addict, they choose not to call the ambulance, police or even take him to the hospital. That would probably have resulted in a sentence for her. So they choose to do NOTHING! I rush him to the ER.

A horrific experience.

No need to say that we don’t talk to them anymore?!

We both had Covid again.

2024, still not working because of my wrist. This wrist is killing me and my mind is sad all the time.

Got a scare when the doctor found a change of structure in my lymph nodes, after the biopsy, we are lucky to say it’s not cancer.

Very depressed and the feeling of hopelessness is huge.

The ONE thing that has been keeping me on my feet, is my son.

He is such a brave boy and he had to go through a lot.

He is an icehockey goalie, loves to hang with friends, likes music, good foods is a favorite, likes clothes and shoes.

A typical teenager!

Just waiting to turn 15 and have a moped with the freedom that comes with that.

But the thing is, i can’t pay for the equipment he need playing his sport, the fees are killing me, the fees for cups, overnight stays in different cities.

New clothes that he so desperately needs, new shoes and jacket.

Even such a basic thing as a haircut.

I just can’t stretch the few krona i get on sick leave pay.

It’s not a worthy way to live.

I know that many people have a tough life. But i have ALWAYS given of what i have. No matter how little or how much i have! I am a warmhearted and considerate woman that needs help!

The money i’m trying to raise is for us to try and get our life back.

Pay for what my son and i need.

The icehockey, the clothes and just feel normal for a day or two without tears and pain.

I will not come back to work this year either and it has now been almost 20 years of bad things happening.

Keep my fingers crossed that ANYONE will help us out on the other side of life.

Thanks for your everlasting support!

Love Ewa and Adam ❤️