INNOCENT BYSTANDER SURVIVOR MOM OF 2 PLEASE HELP

November 12th update :: THE SECOND FALL

So this past weekend I did make an accident and I feel bad for us for the second time I did scrape my back in my elbow, but so far so good I’m feeling better now I do have some really really big news I was invited to Thanksgiving to be with my father and my brothers for the very first time of my life. Yes this is a 3 1/2 hour drive and I am asking for all the help that I can get to get a small checklist of things that I need to get done before I am able to make this trip happen. My car does take 93 so I will need enough gas to get there and back and may be a little bit of travel inside the city. Once we get there I do need a spare tire for a size 18 rim. Yes, my car does take size 18 ram I’m not sure if that’s a spare that I need but that’s what I looked up so Google gave me the education. I guess my children don’t have suitcases but a we can use trash bags again like we did for our very first trip during this journey of being in a wheelchair. I do know that I do need front brakes. I don’t know what type of brakes my car takes, but I do know the front Driver side this week just a little bit. I also do you think I should get a tuneup taking a trip that long I’m pretty sure my car needs a tuneup. If anyone can please help make this trip happen I would greatly greatly appreciate it as this would be the first thanksgiving that I would be able to spend with my dad and my two little brothers, I don’t have cash app I do have Chime $XO6X and Venmo. Teesbyvic

November 1st update:::

SHOWER IS USABLE !!! I can finally Shower after three years and 10 months everything for the shower port has been completed. The only thing left in the bathroom is gonna be dropping the sink and opening it up at the bottom and finishing the tile floors which as of right now we just don’t have the materials to do that. Also, the other updates is for the kitchen. The kitchen sink has not been able to be dropped yet or opened up because of the materials. They are very expensive but the bathroom sink the bathroom floors in the kitchen sink will be the only thing left for renovations.

Aug 19th

shower supplies has been purchased

the wonderful person perchased everything

and another helped with some !! I am so grateful 3 year 6 month 18 days

I will finally be able to shower soon ….

car update —- I am now having to take full action and take him to small claims court…

$215 to file the complaint I’m not sure about any other fees !!!

health update

wounds are small smallest they ever been !!

New wheelchair is in the shop getting some additional adjustments…

Aug1st update everything is the same things have been really rough 

I have taken legal action on the person about the car situation basically everything I no know they scammed me but I’ve got all my paper work and I’m looking for a lawyer to assist me … 

Pray for me please now I don’t have a car and everything is back how it was !!! 

No way to get to appointment NOTHING 

DAY 14 of being stuck and no way to go anywhere !!! 

June 27 2024 update 

Health update so far so good on the cath clamp 

I’m loving the fact I can wear shorts and dresses … 

I’m not sure why bad things happen to me but 

I have file police reports . My car was stolen July 17th 2024, as of what I know from how things are going I was completely scammed .. now I have to start over it took me 3 years to get another car 

Why do ppl do bad things to good ppl . I love my god I love my life I do good .. 

please send a prayer for me .. 

Trailer update - there has been a hault on things because of no funds for my shower ( roll in shower ) 

My living room and kids room carpets was ripped out and floors was finally put down .. 

I am still behind 1185. But I’m holding stressing jsut trying to keep current up today .. 

May 26 2024. !! UPDATE !!!

HEALTH UPDATE — NO MORE LEG BAG !! Waiting 2 years just to get to clamp off and release every 3/4 hours and use a night bag well my legs have freedom but why couldn’t a doctor in my own city give me a small clamp and for my caths to be changed at home !! But progress and no surgeries!!! 

FINALLY !! I have a car !! It floats like a cloud 

NO MORE VAN ISSUES !! I owe 600 then I’ll have it paid off !! 

I’m still behind in my rent 1185 !! 

UPDATE ON SHOWER !! 

The wonderful gentlemen is doing it by how donations come .. so I finally do have some progress !! I have a separate go fund me that go directly to the shower guy and when something comes in he calls to set an appointment! But small progress and better progress then what I have had the past 3 years !!! 

WHEELCHAIR UPDATE may 26, 2024 

5 more weeks and black beauti will be here !! 

I won my appeal !! I proved they put me in the wrong chair !! I can’t wait to get her !! 

Just pray for my journey of making my life comfortable 

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Things I need 

BANDAGES 

ABD PADS 

BED PADS 

METPHOR H TAPE 

CLEANING SUPPLIES 

TRASH BAGS 

LAUNDRY SOAP 

Dawn dish soap 

Paper towels 

Tissue 

UPDATE ON MY PERSONAL LIFE !! 

Being failed by so many resources has hurt and push my learning and mobility backwards now that I am learning how to live like this I am learning of all the ways that I need things for my life to be some what normal !! I have goals I would love to go to school at penn foster but that’s 1,500 I can’t afford that any time soon !! I have my support page you can support by purchasing !! , customized items tshirts , hoodies , customized shoes , bags , car decals , baby items and more 

 To read full story just scroll down !! 

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The beginning December 25 2020 .. 

this is my story It was Christmas of 2020, Covid was everywhere, my 2 little boys were with their father and I had looked at their gifts under my tree as long as I could, I missed them so much. When my friends invited me to get out of the house, I didn't feel like dressing up, but I decided to go and try to enjoy myself. • I went into the club and joined my friends. About an hour after I arrived, a fight broke out inside the bar. Thankfully, it was handled by security and I didn't feel there was any reason to be concerned, especially since off duty police officers were outside along with security.Everyone relaxed and we continued to enjoy music Suddenly I heard gunshots. Before I could take cover or even move, I was on my back on the ground and terrified because I couldn't breathe. I remember 2 voices telling me everything will be okay and explaining I had been shot through the wall. I heard someone saying an ambulance was on the way and then there was nothing! I can't imagine what my family went through! It was sometime between Jan 23rd and 25th 2021 when I finally woke up . I woke up in pain. I woke up and I realized I couldn’t breathe on my own. I was on a ventilator. I couldn't feel my legs . It was hard to move my arms, it was hard to move my fingers and the only way to communicate was writing. Then they told me I was paralyzed. I couldn't walk. I had to learn a few things like eating and drinking before I was moved out of ICU. After I learned to move my arms and swallow I was able to be moved to a regular hospital room. Then, I had to learn to talk all over again. To say this journey has been difficult is an understatement. It has been so difficult for my parents and for my boys. My mother cares for me around the clock. At this moment, I can't get access to basic things like a handicap van for transportation, I can't enlarge my bathroom to make it accessible for my wheel chair. What I have done is take up crafting. I make custom tee shirts. I am not asking for anyone to feel sorry for me. I know God has a reason for this time in my life. I am just asking for some assistance to get my life back to some type of "normal" or our "new normal". I should add, the man who was armed with an draco and shot into the building, killed a man and wounded another woman. I know I am blessed to be alive and with my boys. This man has not been charged and is out on bond.What makes me sad, this could happen to anyone as we learn every time there is a shooting. Just an update !!

 Here is an update It’s 2022 now I’ve been paralyzed for 2 years ! Havnt had much assistance from Medicaid !! Thankful for my mom she has been my full time care taker ! The bad news is I still haven’t been able to Have an accessible van or bath room !! The good news is I’ll be moving into my own place soon ! There is renovations being made like a ramp a church was able to help me with that and it’s being built march 11th ! I’m so behind on bills and other things . This has not been easy ! My whole life was changed and that means everything. I still can’t use the restroom on my on and we can’t find a GI DOCTOR to take me as a patient! You don’t have to donate but please share my story !! To everyone always be aware of your surroundings!

 Update as of Jan.28.2023 The trailer is a double wide ! I can fit through all the doors with my wheelchair I can’t get into right now because of the ramp but I’m still doing what I can to make things happen my boys deserve this and this is why I’m pushing myself to be stronger !! My heart goes out to everyone who has been shot and it wasn’t meant for them !! I pray that gun violence stops !! This is what I am now in need of The water is 325 plus a 300 deposit I can send you the info and payments can be made !! A electrician is needed but I can’t find one Carpet for 1 room ( the boys) Flooring is needed for Kitchen Living room 1bedroom Fridge UPDATE 4/30/23 I have moved into my own home !! I’m still needing a few things installed but I have been able to start getting things together and organized well for my liking. The ramp is amazing ! Being able to go in all the rooms and not get stuck or not able to fit ! BEING ABLE IS THE BEST FEELING ! I don’t have a shower built yet but I’m doing my best ! I and having surgery

UPDATE 5/1/23 I am getting a colostomy bag. I made the decision to get it for so many reason and I pray it allows me to be even more independent. I AM currently in the hospital still it’s now may 3rd !! So far recovery is going well !! I am trying so hard to be or feel this new normal life ! Accepting myself was hard !! But I did it and I am,I will, I can, be strong !! The summer went pretty well I was able to do some new things I drive with hand controls but I can’t get into and out of the van so I need help with my legs but I can almost do it a lot I am tying to hard if I had a car it would be so so so much easier! New wheelchiar cost a lil over 3200 idk how I’ll never get that ! But prayer

 Update 8/17/23 back in the hospital with septic not sure how long I’ll be here but to be continued.

 Update 8/16/23 things been really rough I was in the hospital for another 7days with a infection bed sores are just not wanting to heal at all!! I’m still not having any luck getting a manual wheelchair that is fitted for me ! The programs that are supposed to help and provide resources are not really helpful . This journey is not getting any easier. Trying to find some type of work but also have to remember that it could affect my disability income and that’s only 841 a month and a job could easily get that taken away from me and then I would loose health insurance.. I am struggling so bad !! Mentally I’m doing my best to not fall into depression but going through this with only my mom to help me with things like my house duties helping with the kids things get so hard and I know it’s hard on her !! We are doing our best !! Please send prayers and share my story !! There is no compassion in this world anymore and it’s so hurtful for people that don’t live this life I live daily !! Send prayers !!!

 Oct 12 2023 update - Doctors are still not referring me to the hip doctor . Still not receiving physical therapy and my insurance does cover it . Still not being able to get a wheelchair through insurance I am fighting and trying my hardest . My home my water line busted and that having to be fixed made me have to get behind on my trailer payment The programs I am in say they help with home upgrade for disabled but I’m still getting denied for a stand up shower or roll in shower . My van is completely falling apart My health from infections have been a little bit better. But over all I am still struggling .

 November 17, 2023 . Update - I’m still fighting for my medical records . I’m still fighting for a referral to a hip specialist. I’m still fighting for a wheelchair prescription to a wheelchair that will be more independently able for me as I was fitted to early for the motor chair and I am way more independent and able to do things . I still got denied for the bathroom remodel. My van my poor van is falling apart . I am behind on my trailer paper . Financially I am falling apart Next month will be my 3 years of injury and being in a wheelchair I am alive and I am grateful . I wish the pain and the sweating would go away I feel like I’m being punished everyday I wake up . I pray for forgiveness and I pray that god takes me under his wings and allow me to regain my faith as all things are possible through Christ ! Miracles happen I have seen them .

 Update on the case - the guy isn’t in jail still . He has revoked his bond by going out of state . But nothing has been done about it . I know this is just a waiting game

. Doctor update Dec 18 23 Back in august I requested for my doctor to find me a wound care doctor I have not been to because all the ones I have seen havnt provided me with the right care !! I also request a medial necessity letter to request a new wheelchair that fits me I also request a referral to a hip specialist He had 3 mo this to get these things I requested together and he didn’t do anything I asked He did referral me to a wound care doctor and stated I have not seen this one but I did and it was the same women who cut into my muscle and killed my muscle around my hips that caused them to dislocate

 New year 2024 3 years paralyzed Doctors update - Jan 11 is my next appointment with my PCP - if he hasn’t got the things I requested together I will have to change doctors again and report him to the medical board because I’m requesting things that shouldn’t take 3 months to do !! The wound care doctor did not change anything that I was already doing ! Wound care doctor Jan 22 next follow up Things are becoming easier as me being independent My van is falling apart I need a rackin pin A new motor mount Tire And my front bumper is falling off My sliding door won’t slide on the passenger side And my front door won’t open from the outside I’m still fighting with the department of rehabilitation to help getting a roll in shower And my sink lowered so I can reach them I’m able to do more then I was in the past years because I have had to teach myself !! I could be more independent if I had the correct wheelchair and my bathroom and sink fixed and if I had a car not a van . If I had a small car I would be able to use my sliding board and slide right over but with the van I have to have help getting my leg unstuck from my wheelchair to get up and over !! I am behind 650 on my trailer payment I pray one day someone will be compassionate enough to bless me out of my worry’s and allow me to get a small fresh start of just not being behind and not having to worry about things.

Update Feb 1 2024 

 March 11 hip doctor !! 

Waiting on an evaluation from the wheelchair people I’ve had to fight so har for this !! I’m just praying I can get the correct chair !! 

Wound care hasn’t done anything different… 

I still have wounds on my buttocks I am still in need of medical supplies for my wounds 

Abd pads 

Gauges 

6x6 bandanges 

Medphor H tape 

I am in need of cleaning supplies 

I am still trying to get a small car 

Update Feb 21, 2024 

Someone reported my go fund me as a scam and my go fund me got deleted !!!! 

I was able to get in contact with GoFundMe me and they we very sorry. I had to go through a whole process and was able to prove that I am not a scam !!!! And for whom ever did that to me I’m just going to forgive you because that’s wrong !!!! I go through so much and me asking for help is not wrong !! I didn’t ask for this life ! God put me in it !! And what god says be nice to people !!!! 

April 10th updates ⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️ 2024 

Bedsores are as the size of a tennis ball . 

Change daily 2x bandages 

Span over 3 years 

Update on hips ⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️ 2024 

Finally a doctor saw me !! In prattville.. 

he stated there is nothing he could do surgery wise for the bones !! Because my right hip joint ball is gone completely deteriorated .. 

This has been an ongoing issue I have complained and push the issue of something being wrong with my hips and I knew something was wrong !! I know my body !! 

Thinking of a surgery that will eliminate the leg bag and foley cath and I would have another bag inside of my colostomy call and urostomey 

Or self cath options through the belly button 

Update on trailer 

Still behind $850 

Bathroom still has not been renovated to have a wheelchair accessible shower roll in 

Plans to change living room floor to snap links (already got them ) and take up the carpet !!! 

Van updates !! 

Rack pinion has been replaced 

New issue total to fix 280 

Side moter mount 

Back Motor mount 

May 1 update !!! 

Rack piñon & motor mounts fixed !! 

Next is struts rotors and brake pads w/labor $430 

Then air compressor and oil cover valves not priced yet 

Urologist update being referred to another doctor now we wait and see ….. 

House update No help on a shower still waiting …. 

I need 4 more snap and lock floor boxes from Lowe’s 21.99 each I need 4 more to get the living done … labor $80 

MAY 6 2024 UPDATES 

NO MORE VAN TROULE ! 

I was able to find a wonder human to provide me with a car , I have a balance of $750 left on the car . But I thank god and the wonderful human that the car is very reliable !!! 

No update on shower or floor … 

No update on hip doctor. 

Only update on manual ultra light wheelchair is we had to appeal with the united health care but Medicare has already approved the medical necessity for the wheelchair stated I do need it . . 

So now again we wait …. 

I’m so happy to finally have some progress !! And no more van issues !!! 

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I am looking to find the best surgeon doctor in the USA that can provide me with the best quality of this like I did not ask for !! I’m living a life I wasn’t even headed for in life !! I was happy my kids was happy ! W head our own house !! Car paid for like I had a jobs and I loved working !! I am tryin so hard to not give up be strong and make a life out of what has be laid for me !! How do I make myself happy move on and accept the life that was laid for me !! How do I have the best quality of life when the doctor don’t care for me !! How can I have a good quality life when I don’t have the equipment or finances to give myself a happy life a comfortable life that I didn’t ask for !! I was a good person ! I was just enjoying life !! 

 !! No matter what I hate I was at the wrong place at the wrong time !! I was just enjoying my self !! God I’m trying I am really not giving up I will become something and not just give up I will be outside living enjoying the world you crated !!