A friend's plea for a Father's fight

I reach out to you today with a plea that comes straight from the heart. One of my friends is facing an unimaginable struggle that no one should have to endure alone. For the past six years, he has been locked in a draining and costly legal battle regarding the custody of his children. This fight has already cost him over $300,000 in court and solicitor fees, but the emotional toll is beyond measure.

His sole desire from this ordeal was reasonable access to his children. Sadly, they were frequently, and iniquitously kept apart by their mother until due process, the courts and the police could intervene, one occasion resulting in a heart-breaking eight-month separation from the people he cares about above all else.

Unfortunately, due to ongoing legal proceedings, I cannot provide further details of the depravity and inequity inflicted upon him, his family, and his children. On legal advice, I cannot even mention his name in case it influences future proceedings. It sickens and saddens me to have watched these stories unfold.

Despite the overwhelming challenges, he has shown remarkable resilience and love for his children. His dedication and sacrifices were further solidified when, in early 2023, the court ruled that the children’s best interests were served by granting him full custody. For the last 18 months, he has single-handedly supported them, ensuring they have a stable and nurturing environment. His only wish was for a reasonable sharing of the children, but he has gracefully embraced his expanded role to provide them with the security and love they need.

Now, he faces another daunting challenge. He has just four weeks to move out of his current rental property, which has been sold. Due to the enormous legal costs and another court hearing pending that will incur additional fees, he is unable to secure a loan for a new home and the rental market is difficult. The financial burden of raising his children alone, coupled with working full-time while still being present for sports, school, and recreational activities, has left him in a precarious situation.

He is the epitome of selflessness. He has always been there to assist others, often at his own expense, never expecting anything in return. Now, it is our turn to support him. We can help ensure that he and his children continue to thrive in a loving and stable environment.

Your generous donations can alleviate some of the financial stress he is under. Every contribution, no matter how small, will make a significant impact.

Please open your hearts and join us in this effort to support a man who has given so much to others. This is one of the most important things I have ever been a part of, and I need your help.

Thank you for your kindness and generosity.

Sincerely,

Jason Garner